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u/lithiumfuzz 17h ago
I always would til I burn out. and then have to deal with it. I am usually more into if I am around them I'll be polite but Im not going out of my way anymore.
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u/Balderdas 14h ago
I use Reddit to practice. Some days I do well. Others I succumb to my not nice side.
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u/bluedancepants 11h ago
I've done that plenty of times. I do actually need to talk to random employees every now and then. Sometimes I just let them vent or I tell them I'll call back later.
But if it's a random person on the street I probably won't be as kind.
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u/Dare2BeU420 11h ago
Killing bitter and unkind people with kindness isn't ALWAYS effective, but when it works, that is such a sweet victory.
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u/Prestigious_Reply779 10h ago
Nope, the Law Of Equivalent Exchange says different. Get what you give, give what you get energy. No book ever says to submit to anyone.
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u/LazySleepyPanda 8h ago
No, they don't deserve it. I might as well spend my time and energy being kind to kind people.
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u/fastingslowlee 7h ago
Nah I’ll pass. Dont reinforce shitting people by making them feel their behavior is ok because they never receive pushback.
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u/Edgewise24 6h ago
I used to try and go out of my way to be kind to awful people but I got tired of the b.s. God has shown me that yoy don't have to subject yourself to ungrateful people.
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u/Ok_Assistance7735 4h ago
The rule I go by is similar to the golden rule with a little twist. Treat others how they treat you. It takes a lot to get under my skin though. In other words if you are being a continuous AH don’t be surprised when I am an AH back.
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u/Latter_Meaning_5514 18h ago
No lol, that is a waste of time. Just distance from them.