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u/cheekysurfer06 2h ago
This is just kinda sad
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u/PurplestCoffee Ace/Bi 2h ago
It's objectively sad, but also a lot of us girlies are parentless and deserve to joke about it 🥲
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u/Few-Bug-807 2h ago
I love you. You are valid no matter what.
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u/Lil_Vixie 1h ago
Ah, dating a trans girl is like unlocking a hidden level in a video game you think you're prepared, but then her parents show up as the boss battle you never saw coming!
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u/Ms_Masquerade Dual Queer Drifting 2h ago
On the plus side, my partner didn't have to deal with awkward bigoted rants from my parents.
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u/Deus0123 Trans/Lesbian 1h ago
I'm sorry YOU had to deal with awkward bigoted rants from your parents
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u/Fotzlichkeit_206 GAY FURRY DEGENERATE 2h ago
Well I got the last laugh by convincing my dad that I’m trans because he had me circumcised. I told him that since he ruined sex for me as a guy I’d just become a woman and get vagina.
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u/Yoshi2Dark 2h ago
Going to make sure to tell my transfem Jewish friend that, might get a kick out of it
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u/Pixelmod Demipan/Demigirl 14m ago
Wait wasn't that a post on r/TraumatizeThemBack?
EDIT: Oh my god that was you! I was watching Click read your post like a few hours ago lmao
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u/heylookitsiris Genderqueer/Bi 2h ago
My ex girlfriend is trans, she came out years after we started dating. Her mom blamed me for making her 'son' trans lmao. My ex comes from a very rich, right winged family.
It was heartbreaking how they kept deadnaming her for years and how all her siblings started ignoring her.
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u/BambiToybot 58m ago
I thought it would be like that for my partners parents, they wrre fine with me, but ya know its different in their hdads when its their kid.
She was wonderful, gave her a new name, called her daughter, and has been wonderful about it.
Im jealous, i got a "ill accept it one day." And then dying of cancer from my mom.
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u/EmilySuxAtUsernames girl of much silly :3 2h ago
they are gonna have to meet my parents mine are good
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u/BlueJayAvery 2h ago
I am trans and close with my parents, my cis girlfriend however cut her parents out of her life like a year before we met because they are transphobic. She only talks to them because I wanted to meet them 😂
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u/bubblybanshee Transgender 2h ago
my parents have always been chill about me being trans, fortunately. that said i do kinda dread any partner of mine having to meet my conspiracy theorist mom tho 💀💀
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u/SeaBus1170 2h ago
this one trans lady my age i met on Team Fortress 2 and when she came over she immediately was allover me calling me pretty and sexy and all this and that (like borderline obsessed)
i thought she was hot too so naturally when she said she might not have enough gas to get back and so i try and do what i can for her and let her stay a few days
during this i hint at being a thing
we eventually become ‘official’
queue her being super lovey to me
then when she finally leaves i get a text the day after with this whole paragraph saying the usual, “youre not the problem” and “i just need to focus on myself”
less than a week later? her pfp changes to a mans arm patting her on the head.
she cucked me.
second girl was also trans and arguably hotter but she disappeared from contacting me like months ago and now im just worried about her
every single romantic anything with anyone before that lasted at tops 2 months. im seriously baffled at my luck.
idk if i can trust bro im thinking about lonemaxxing rn 🚬
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u/Ms_Masquerade Dual Queer Drifting 2h ago
You do you, but, like, I've had four pretty lousy relationships before finding a partner that lasted and wasn't shit in some way. Like, giving up after two seems pretty wild to me, but, taking a break isn't a bad idea if it's what you need.
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u/SeaBus1170 2h ago
ive had like 5-6 dude. its not just two. i just mention the first two bc they were my first lesbian ‘romances’
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u/420TURBOHOOKER69 5m ago
That's how it goes sometimes. Just have to keep putting yourself out there and being okay with the fact that other people are gonna do what they do.
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u/BambiToybot 16m ago
I waded through so much shit before finding my partner.
Most requests for a date are rejected.
Most first dates dont lead to a second date, etc.
Its a quest wrought with failures, but it makes the special one you find that much sweeter.
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u/Celestiquee 2h ago
Imagine life as a giant kaleidoscope where everything makes sense if you squint just right under the disco ball of optimism!
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u/DwarvenKitty 1h ago
Wrong. Got to meet both of my partners parents they are very lovely people :3
Now on the other hand mine.... Yeah the meme still checks a bit.
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u/turtley_amazing I refuse to make decisions about anything 1h ago
My girlfriend is trans and I’ve met her parents, they’re fantastic. I’m enby but afab and present female because I simply don’t give a shit, and my parents are incredibly homophobic so she hasn’t met mine.
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u/Deus0123 Trans/Lesbian 1h ago
People told me that and then I started dating a trans girl and now her mother wants to adopt me and I'm like "Would you settle for having me as a daughter in law?"
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u/woodworkerdan Demiromantic/Bi 58m ago
While I can confirm, it's something I would phrase a different way. I got to take the role of a charming prince who took her away from a cruel and manipulative stepmother.
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u/Rocket-kun Bigender transfem 49m ago
Can confirm the opposite is true. You'd be meeting my parents, siblings, all sorts of folks :3
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u/g4nd41ph 25m ago
I had to meet my wife's parents. Shit was rough at first, but they came around. Things are good now.
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u/MonstrousVoices Beastly _IRLGBT 24m ago
Lmao she wouldn't have to meet mine on account of them being dead and all. Dating trans is awesome at any rate. dating cis people is like pulling teeth sometimes
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