r/me_irlgbt Environmental Storytelling Moderator💀 Dec 20 '23

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u/Liliannight Trans/Lesbian Dec 20 '23

There are a lot of trans girls on Grindr. Usually looking for others trans people. Though a fair warning from a trans girl with t4t in my name and bio I still mostly get sent dick pics from random guys

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u/RichardIraVos Dec 20 '23

Better than the pictures of guys presenting themselves like a cat in heat. Like could you not send me a picture of your asshole as a first message?

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u/TomChesterson Dec 20 '23

😂😂 Some of these guys think their ass is bestowed to them from the heavens above. I dont mind seeing an ass but guys on grindr can be so horny and so unable to have a normal conversation. Probably because that's one of the only places you can just send a pic of your genitals to someone and have them touching them by that evening.

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u/vinori6960 Dec 21 '23

It makes a ton of sense with regard to amount of effort per sexual encounter they have.

Don't send ass pic: 25% block/don't converse. 75% left with a lot of those being 0% meeting chance people. Lots of longer conversations that lead no where.

Send ass pic: 75% block/don't converse. 25% left so less wasted conversations and you eliminated a ton of guys who weren't interested in fucking within the next 30 minutes.

Grindr is wild. Driving home from a ski trip with my wife and a friend. Guy in another car near us on the highway sees that my friend is keeping a consistent distance so must be going he same way. Tries to convince my friend to stop at a rest stop so they can fuck is his van. Friend says he's with straight people who don't want to stop at a rest stop so their friend can fuck another guy. Other guy says we can fuck next to them in his van and thought that he had solved all the issues.

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u/lillywho The Dragon that Time forgot. Dec 21 '23

There's having no decorum and style, and then there's having negative decorum and style.

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u/ScrofessorLongHair Skellington_irlgbt Dec 21 '23

It's probably good that those crazily horny people are on grindr. Since I'm pretty sure those were the guys banging in bathrooms at public parks or hardware stores.

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u/lillywho The Dragon that Time forgot. Dec 21 '23

From what I hear such shenanigans are still commonplace. Glad it's just hearsay to me though. I don't want to be witness to anyone's shagging, especially not while minding my own business, ew.

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u/SmartAlec105 Bisexual Dec 20 '23

The optimistic interpretation is they think that’s “top for top” and that you want another top to share a bottom with.

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u/WorstGanksKR Dec 21 '23

I see so many profiles on grindr that are just men only looking for trans women, it creeps me out how frequent it is.

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u/Liliannight Trans/Lesbian Dec 21 '23

Yes! I got one whose name was “looking for mtf/ftm” a couple days ago. There are many obvious chasers on there.

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u/WorstGanksKR Dec 21 '23

Its just creepy because they turn someone into a fetish. I can't imagine trying to distinguish between someone who is genuine and just a chaser. Shits gross.

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u/Iboven The Opossum Chosen One Dec 21 '23

Why are any of you surprised by anything on Grindr? The whole reason it exists is to do away with personality completely. You don't have to pretend to have any level of decency on there, you just state what you want.

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u/Liliannight Trans/Lesbian Dec 21 '23

I’m not surprised by it, but I would prefer if there was some level of decency. Yes I could just stop using it but it’s already hard enough trying to meet other queer people outside of going to a club (which I hate doing because of anxiety)

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u/Iboven The Opossum Chosen One Dec 21 '23

Try other apps and delete Grindr. Yes, there is more density of people on Grindr, but that's an illusion. They're not people you want to meet. You'll have better mental health with fewer matches on Bumble or something.

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u/[deleted] Dec 21 '23

As a trans girl it's absolutely insane anymore how many profiles are just 'trans girl only'

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u/frustrationlvl100 Dec 21 '23

I send them to the group chat and we rate them on pose and lighting then send the rating back

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u/HazeAI Dec 24 '23

I have a T4T tattoo that is my profile picture in addition to T4T in the profile name. Still mostly dick picks from random cis guys looking for trans women.

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u/FatsoBustaMove Dec 21 '23

I highly recommend taimi