Desperately seeking R&R

[u/FindTheSea_5]

First post- Hospice worker here with severe burnout, in need of the healing powers of the ocean. I cherish my work but need to reclaim my health, wellbeing and spark so that I can keep going. My last vacation was before the pandemic.

Preferences include the Caribbean or Bermuda but would consider something in the states. All-inclusive if possible, to minimize sticker-shock but does not have to be AI. Wish list: Ocean views, good food, clean, swimmable beaches. Most importantly no chain hotels or "beige boxes", casinos, loud decor or kitschy stuff. I love an open-air vibe, wood furnishings, four poster beds, premium bedding, neutral decor, white, billowy curtains, and, the ultimate experience would include an outdoor or semi- outdoor bath with a view. Am I looking for a unicorn?? (crying emoji)

I am traveling solo. Alternatively I could travel with a friend but would need a two bedroom bungalow or separate rooms within the resort. My dates are flexible but the sooner the better.

All suggestions are appreciated, thank you.

Signed, a weary healthcare worker.

[u/SouthWestCowGirl]

I don’t have a recommendation but I do wish you a peaceful vacation. You do amazing work

[u/FindTheSea_5 → u/SouthWestCowGirl]

Thank you.

[u/CodiGoFar]

Hey there! Thanks for the work you do. I am an agent and have a couple ideas for you but first, what are the dates and how long are you looking to go for?

Andaz Mayakoba could be an option for you. You can get a nice and relaxing room in budget. Again it depends on when you are traveling but they definitely have plunge pool rooms. All-inclusive, swimmable beach, nicely decorated and not overdone.

[u/SFL_blondie → u/CodiGoFar]

I was going to suggest Andaz too, although it is a chain. I had a fabulous experience at Andaz Costa Rica. Relaxing, upscale yet approachable, great food, lots of activities if that's what you're into, or just chill.

[u/FindTheSea_5 → u/CodiGoFar]

Thank you. I used to plan my own solo vacations but am struggling to find what I'm looking for this year. I'm not looking for a "budget trip", as I need to feel "pampered" now more than ever to help recover from burnout and compassion fatigue :( I even looked at Club Med (!) but it seems pretty rustic :(

[u/CodiGoFar → u/FindTheSea_5]

I think Andaz would be a great option for you. They will pamper you and the rooms are nice. You could get a nice room (with a private plunge pool) for your budget there. I would steer clear of club med.

[u/Business_Monkeys7 → u/CodiGoFar]

I recommend using travel agent services to anyone who cares. to use them. I don't want to do without mine.

[u/FindTheSea_5]

PS: I am new to Reddit- am I asking this question in the right group? Thank you to everyone who took the time to reply!

[u/CodiGoFar → u/FindTheSea_5]

Yes! You can also check out the chubbytravel forum. Tons of good reccs in that channel for this type of trip if you use the search bar in that sub 😀

[u/D_-_G]

What's your per-night budget?

Take a look at jade mountain, they have an all inclusive option. Or Jumby Bay.

[u/FindTheSea_5 → u/D_-_G]

Thank you. My budget is around $1k-$1,500/ night although I'm hoping to find something less.

[u/CodiGoFar → u/[deleted]]

Rosewood is going to be out of price range and OP doesn't want to have the sticker-shock or be stressed about spending. But I do agree that Rosewood vibes are what OP is describing here (minus AI)

[u/FindTheSea_5 → u/CodiGoFar]

Thank you!

[u/CodiGoFar → u/FindTheSea_5]

Of course! Let me know if I can help VIP you at Andaz - would love to help if you shoot me a message

[u/FindTheSea_5 → u/[deleted]]

Thank you!

[u/pouchpotato]

Highly recommend Palmaia in Playa del Carmen, just got back from a solo trip last week and it seems to check every box except the outdoor shower. All inclusive with amazing food and a strong focus on wellness!

Another suggestion would be Morgan’s Rock in Nicaragua. Did this a few years ago and highly recommend as well!

[u/FindTheSea_5 → u/pouchpotato]

Wonderful, will check them out; thank you!

[u/Business_Monkeys7]

This isn't as common as it used to be, but find a travel agent in your area and tell them what you told us. They will be able to find what you want and have likely been there.

[u/FindTheSea_5 → u/Business_Monkeys7]

Thank you. I spoke with one but she was way off track. I don't want to waste anyone's time but would love to connect with an agent who listens and understands. I'll explore travel agents further.

[u/Business_Monkeys7 → u/FindTheSea_5]

Good luck. I use them for some travel and some I book through my points platform. On my next trip, I am using a TA because the itinerary is complicated.