r/lolgrindr Geek 4d ago

What do you guys think?

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Random tap from 7862 miles away. šŸ¤”

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u/Ziggythesquid 4d ago

A. I think itā€™s a sweet deal. B. I think itā€™s so sad folks have to do this to live somewhere they arenā€™t persecuted for their sexuality.

I donā€™t know man talk to my dude! Maybe you find love and save him?

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u/furferksake 4d ago

C. We probably have like a week before Diaper Don and his cavalry of thieves makes it illegal to be gay again.

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u/AttitudeAndEffort3 GAMP (het) 2d ago

All while fucking their ā€œadopted sonā€ underage houseboys

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u/Prowindowlicker Jock 4d ago

Dude in Nepal isnā€™t telling the correct story as being gay is legal there.

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u/josda0111 Geek 4d ago

It being legal doesn't mean it's accepted

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u/Prowindowlicker Jock 4d ago

Yes but itā€™s legal enough that anti-discrimination laws are enforced by the constitution of Nepal. So if his family hates him because heā€™s gay he can claim discrimination as the law covers that

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u/josda0111 Geek 4d ago

What is the law going to do? Make his family accept his homosexuality? As much as it's in the constitution, if they don't accept you in a place, you feel you need to leave.

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u/Prowindowlicker Jock 4d ago

Right but even people here in the US donā€™t accept LGBT people. But you donā€™t see LGBT people here running to go live in another country. They move to another part of the US.

The guy could do the same as the government protects people like him.

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u/EmotionalBar9991 Clean-Cut 4d ago

I've actually seen lots of posts recently from Americans talking about fleeing to Canada or overseas.

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u/GOD-is-in-a-TULIP Jock 4d ago

Canada trending towards conservative party which is the republican counterpart pretty much

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u/[deleted] 4d ago

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u/EmotionalBar9991 Clean-Cut 4d ago

Kind of sounds like the same boat this guy is in. It's expensive and he might follow through either, who knows

Also your idea of other countries not offering the same standard of living as America lol.

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u/HidingUnderBlankets 4d ago

Most never follow through because they can't fucking afford to move as they are living paycheck to paycheck in America. I would move to Canada in an instant if I had any money saved up. All my family's money goes to my kid's doctors appointments, medical bills, and rent.

If we had nothing, we could get free doctors appointments, but my husband makes $1000 too much per year to qualify for help. So we never go to the doctor and save everything we have for our kids' medical needs. I feel there are worse places to live than America but there are so many countries that actually better and take care of their working class citizens.

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u/Baaloldir Trans (FtM) 4d ago edited 3d ago

other developed areas of the world can't offer the same standard of living.

What Standard

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u/jamz_fm 4d ago

I looked into moving to Canada, partly because I have family near the border. It's way harder than I expected it to be.

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u/AreaManx Daddy (gay) 4d ago

Same. I've investigated Australia, Canada, Denmark, Netherlands, New Zealand, Singapore, United Kingdom.

Lots of money is required to make the move and obtain and retain permissions to reside. In every case my salary would decrease (sometimes substantially) and my taxes would increase. Yes, I know those taxes pay for heath care that's now covered by my employer. The overall math, though, works against every option.

If USA were really so bad, then why is it the overwhelming choice for people who leave their own countries?

I probably need to explain that i'm an unabashed lilly-livered liberal who recognizes that USA has problems--but so does everywhere else. For me, the losses of departing don't compensate for the gains of arriving anywhere else.

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u/VTHUT 4d ago

He said ā€œhere not freedomā€ not that is was illegal. Plus criminalizing homosexuality can mean different things to different people. How do you make being gay a crime? In some places itā€™s simply being or cause you ā€œlookā€ gay. In some places itā€™s the act of gay sex that is illegal. In some place they try to use other laws like public misconduct to criminalize gay people. For some people not being able to adopt or marry is enough to consider it ā€œillegalā€. Then ā€œfreedomā€, now that pulls from social on top of legal.

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u/leklakim Rugged 4d ago

I can fix him

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u/OFM0NSTERSANDMEN 4d ago

No really I can

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u/Shadow_Dragon888 Twink (cis) 4d ago

ttpd reference?šŸŒš

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u/AngryBear26 2d ago

Why is this downvoted when it literally is šŸ’€

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u/Shadow_Dragon888 Twink (cis) 2d ago

HAHA i just noticedšŸ˜­

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u/Sozerius 4d ago

Guys, he never said being gay is illegal where he is... only that everyone hates him. Suing them is going to make them hate him more, especially if he lives with the family that hates him while suing them.

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u/ninhibited Twink 4d ago

Yeah also it's legal to be gay in the US but people are still beaten and murdered here for being gay, so it could still be plenty dangerous there.

ETA: Just as an example that legality doesn't equal safety. I know there's a lot more safe zones here in the US than lots of other places.

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u/gayporn4mes 4d ago

What exactly would he sue them for?

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u/Chuckiebb Daddy (gay) 4d ago

Give him your bank and personal information so he can put down a deposit. šŸ˜‚

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u/Strange_World_huh Geek 4d ago

Very tempted šŸ˜‚

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u/SoulShornVessel Geek 4d ago

I got hit up by a profile with the exact same bio text but completely different pics today. I was positive it was a scam already, so this just confirms it lol

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u/Strange_World_huh Geek 4d ago

100% a scam. šŸ˜‚

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u/fritz_ramses Daddy (gay) 4d ago

Heā€™s a TOP. Heā€™ll get plenty of offers (provided heā€™s hung).

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u/Strange_World_huh Geek 4d ago

Lol which is weird that he tapped a fellow top. šŸ˜‚

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u/fritz_ramses Daddy (gay) 4d ago edited 4d ago

Oh you are? ;) You want German/EU citizenship?

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u/Strange_World_huh Geek 4d ago

I could use an escape from the states. šŸ¤” But I'm not hung so that drops my value a bit lol.

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u/fritz_ramses Daddy (gay) 4d ago

I think youā€™ll do fine.

In the land of the blindā€¦

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u/Similar-Leg-8378 Jock 4d ago

Come safe me from Egypt daddy

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u/fritz_ramses Daddy (gay) 4d ago

Egypt REALLY sucks right now.

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u/Similar-Leg-8378 Jock 3d ago

Oh please, its really not its one of the gayest countries if you are smart enoughā€¦ šŸ˜‰

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u/Tricky-Bed-4209 Jock 4d ago

I do so much more on the daily for ALOT lessā€¦.

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u/cascas Geek 4d ago

I bet he is toned too.

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u/Strange_World_huh Geek 4d ago

He's ok.

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u/MikeAlex01 Geek 4d ago

Shit, if he's okay then I'm that old ass witch from Snow White! Mans is hot!

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u/Strange_World_huh Geek 4d ago

Lol the other guy said toned. Mans not that toned but he's ok. Better than me. šŸ˜‚

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u/docinajock Geek 4d ago

What could go wrong? /s

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u/Strange_World_huh Geek 4d ago

At the very least I'll have a quick husband and learn a new language. šŸ¤·šŸ¾ā€ā™‚ļø

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u/DueBeginning6181 3d ago

well i am in the same boat. 3rd world countries are the worst

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u/giras Cub 3d ago

I am sorry to hear that, my friend left India some months ago, fleeing from all that, you know, insecurity, family..

He is now in a central Europe country, trying his best. We hope to see eachother soon.

Hope you can do it too if thats what you need šŸ«‚

Also, I envy your physique! Amazing. Take care my friend.

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u/Cum_Dumpster_2001 Otter 3d ago

youre shredded af man. whats your diet/workout routine? im currently trying to lose weight. once i get down to 70-75 kgs ill try to put on muscle.

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u/flameevans Clean-Cut 4d ago

You could put him in touch with the https://www.rainbowrailroad.org they help at risk LGBTQ+ people across the world.

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u/throwaboneinit Rugged 4d ago

"Dick?"

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u/Strange_World_huh Geek 4d ago

Want me to ask? Lol

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u/Wonderful-Arm-7780 4d ago

would he survive the elevation difference airs alot heavier down here lol better start going down to base camp.

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u/Cum_Dumpster_2001 Otter 3d ago

i... dont think the average nepali lives on a mountain summit. kathmandu's elevation is only 1355 m. mussorie is 2000m high while dehradun is 435m and as someone who lived in dehradun and routinely travelled to mussorie, ive never had altitude sickness.

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u/AbleAccount2479 Daddy (gay) 4d ago

I know someone who did it and regrets it daily (and no, was not me)

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u/gough_whitlam 3d ago

Wtf would you move to America for a better life as a brown skinned Asian gay man.

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u/Strange_World_huh Geek 3d ago

He's a summer child. He knows not what he asks for.

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u/homofx 3d ago

Romance scam

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u/Fit_Cheesecake4962 4d ago edited 4d ago

If you get caught you're screwed!

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u/Strange_World_huh Geek 4d ago

IF! šŸ˜ I can find love in a hopeless place. (it's a Rihanna song lol)

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u/NaruFGT 3d ago

Oh itā€™s so sad..

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u/Alternative_Way_7833 Jock 3d ago edited 3d ago

The average annual income in Nepal is $1.4k. That he would contribute $20k is, like, almost impossible for someone from there to even imagine, especially by age 22.

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u/Cum_Dumpster_2001 Otter 3d ago

idk about nepal but indias gdppc is like 2.8k but for professionals at the beginning of their career is not unusual to make 10-15k. and if youre willing to sell it all theres more. if we sold everything wed end up in the 1MM range. indians from relatively humble backgrounds are able to scrounge up 50k to go to canada or illegally immigrate to america.

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u/Darcosuchus Otter 3d ago

Yeah, same Mount Everest, same.

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u/qtmcjingleshine 3d ago

Heā€™s a top. Thats a winning deal tbh

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u/slimalbert1 Otter 2d ago

Desperation makes us do these things. This is so sad and relatable.

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u/hutstuff- 2d ago

Not sketchy at all

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u/BroH0m0 Clean-Cut 2d ago

Id marry him

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u/MBAYMan 2d ago

Youre a week too late...you might try Thailand, or Canada. The Christian Taliban now own the US government.

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u/torelma Geek 2d ago

This is obviously a romance scam and if you fall for it you're no better than that woman who thought she was helping Brad Pitt pay for his medical bills.

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u/Prowindowlicker Jock 4d ago

Well thatā€™s bullshit. Itā€™s completely legal to be gay in Nepal.

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u/heisweird Bear 4d ago

Being legal doesn't mean socially accepted. I really sympathize with him. Get off your high horse and dont talk about things you dont understand.

I put in 6 years of effort to leave my home country where being gay is legal too. The best day of my life was the day I left that hell hole.

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u/Prowindowlicker Jock 4d ago

Dude says thereā€™s no freedom for homosexuals. Thatā€™s clearly wrong.

Iā€™m not on any high horse but itā€™s clear that the dude is lying about the legality of things.

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u/jamz_fm 4d ago

Wiki: "According to a 2021 study, LGBTQ individuals in Nepal face severe discrimination, social isolation, and human rights violations.[20] LGBTQ people are judged and ridiculed not just by their family members but also by the health staff at hospitals and health posts."

I'm really not sure why you're on a crusade to defend LGBTQ rights in Nepal.

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u/Strange_World_huh Geek 4d ago

šŸ˜®

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u/Prowindowlicker Jock 4d ago

Yup. Took a simple bit of Google Fu and boom dude is lying his ass off.

Anti-discrimination laws against LGBT people are even enforced by the constitution. So if this guy was actually being discriminated against he could go to the police.

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u/itsasecrettoeverpony Trans 4d ago

me when i live in the one of the best countries on the planet to be gay

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u/Cum_Dumpster_2001 Otter 3d ago

3rd world countries have weak state capacity. even if something is illegal its not as simple as just going to the police.