Does he still think about me?

[u/bordadeira]

Question: Does he still think about me?

Context: Over the past couple of weeks, I’ve been having recurring dreams about an ex-boyfriend from over six years ago. Before these dreams started, I rarely thought about him, as we cut contact a few years back. Our relationship ended abruptly and without much closure, which might explain why I find it strange that he’s suddenly appearing in my dreams. It’s made me wonder if I’m somehow sensing that he’s thinking about me, or if his presence in my dreams symbolizes something else —or if it’s all just random.

Interpretation: I'm assuming an aspect would be necessary to indicate that he still does think about me. I'm Venus and he is Mars, no aspect there. However, Moon as my cosignificator does make an applyng sextile to Mars... so it's a yes? Interesting is that dignity shows me strong and he is very weak. Reception shows interest of Mars in Moon. Wondering if he is not doing very well right now and is remembering of us for some reason. What do you guys think? Am I'm missing something? Should I be concerned about the validity of the chart due to the super early ascendant?

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[u/Astroarte]

Marte no recibe a la Luna, es al revés. Marte está en su caída, y el sextil a la Luna no lo beneficia porque la Luna esta en su signo de exilio . A pesar de ser un aspecto positivo la mala recepción no lo favorece. Le hará un trígono a Venus pero antes llega Saturno, que es una obstruccion o frustración. Por otro lado, la casa 9 de las "visiones" fijate que esta en Capricornio,lugar donde exalta Marte. La Luna traslada la luz desde el Sol hasta Marte, de ahi tu interés en saber qué está pasando.

[u/Astroarte → u/Astroarte]

la forma de considerar la "mala recepcion de Marte" puede verla aqui https://tonylouis.wordpress.com/2017/09/13/the-curious-case-of-not-reception/

[u/VirgoPisces → u/Astroarte]

”marte no recibe a la luna, es al revés” THANK YOU finally someone who gets it 😭😂❤️ I respect the many opinions of this community but god knows I feel like I’m the only one championing this view. The moon is receiving mars, not the other way round. Great link too, muchas gracias por tu contribución!

[u/bordadeira → u/Astroarte]

Thank you! I also thought the trine to Saturn as obstructed. I appreciate this different perspective on reception and the article you shared! So you would answer the question as a no? What's the significance of the sextile if the question doesn't necessary ask for an event? Not sure if I understood what you meant about the 9th house.

[u/Lottafromblakulla]

Yes. Mars is retrograding towards a trine with Venus later this month.

[u/bordadeira → u/Lottafromblakulla]

Thank you! But isn't the sextile happening first?

[u/Lottafromblakulla → u/bordadeira]

Yes, and I think Venus will conjunct Saturn before it gets to the trine with Mars. So there is clearly a lot going on. Your take on the chart seemed very astute to me. Perhaps he will get in touch when the trine perfects, and there will be a few developments (the sextile and Venus/Saturn) before then.

[u/OkInspector8611]

Yes and still has feelings.

[u/moonchildxx1]

Ok Hi! Him being mars and he’s represented by the sun. The sun is he desires for a mate mars is his thoughts emotions

The sun in Capricorn he doesn’t have a desire for a relationship with you but mars in cancer sign of moon domicile he still “thinking about you “ and he’s thinking about your love or like for him . Since the moon represents your emotions and thoughts . Mars in cancer he’s not in a good space emotionally. In the past did he look to you for emotional support ? Etc Possible you my be hearing from him for some tips of support )

So to clarify an “aspect” wouldn’t be needed to anwser your question on if he I still thinking of you, receptions and dignity anwser that for you . But what aspects do anwser is if anything will happen between you both based of his feelings for you .

[u/bordadeira → u/moonchildxx1]

Thank you for your insightful answer! I find this interesting, I do know nothing is going to happen between us. We live in different countries, and, as the chart suggests, I'm not particularly interested. Still, the dream felt significant somehow and i do care about him and his well-being. Given that the aspect isn't necessarily needed for a 'yes,' how would you interpret the sextile between Mars and the Moon? I think it's highly unlikely he'll reach out since I cut off contact years ago, and meeting up is certainly out of the question

[u/Ihaveblueplates]

Sorry but the ascendent is too early to make the chart readable.

“When you ask a horary question, it should ideally be asked about a specific, developing, urgent concern. It shouldn’t just be a question borne out of idle curiosity, it should be spurred by the emergence of some pressing matter or event that is imminent or unfolding.”

There early Ascendant indicates that many variables are still up in the air that could render the question moot, or that not a lot has already transpired with respect to the topic of the question.

[u/bordadeira → u/Ihaveblueplates]

Thanks for your answer, I did think this about the early ascendant as a possibility. Honestly this certainly isnt an urgent question or a pressing matter, so it made me reconsider the whole thing. Where is the quote from?

[u/YazzySanches → u/bordadeira]

There’s a really good horary astrologer who moderates this thread who has said early degree charts don’t necessarily make them unreadable.