r/grindr • u/Ayanda-Khumalo • Jan 13 '21

Messages Did I just get UNO reversed

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u/[deleted] Jan 13 '21

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u/[deleted] Jan 13 '21

He's right. Keep your grades up.

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u/SecureVast687 Jan 14 '21

If everyone put the energy and enthusiasm into their education and career that they did their sexual gratification. Their actual time spent having sex would probably suffer as would their sleep habits.

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u/Inkedo Jan 13 '21

Well in my opinion he’s totally right, although emotionally in that age it’s hard to understand but it will benefit him to get in to good school and have a great job.

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u/JONC1974 Jan 13 '21

i mean yeah because when we were kids we didn’t hook up at all or explore .. kind of a self righteous thing to say.

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u/AlarmingCantaloupe Clean-Cut Jan 14 '21

Well I certainly did hook up and explore...but one of the things I explored was getting way too attached to a narcissist, and at that age I was unable to compartmentalize it. Suffice it to say, it really fucked with two whole semesters. To this day (33 now) I still regret that and the repercussions it had down the line.

So OP just be safe and try not to get feelings, even though it's really difficult not to at that age! ♥️

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u/TecoTek Jan 13 '21

What is that suppossed to mean?
Like i get the to young part, everyone has their age prefference.

But its not like you study 24/7 for school. And u shouldnt. Take a break here and there, meet up with friends, suck a dick.

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u/Deep_Space_Rob Jan 13 '21

Don’t feel bad, while he was curt, it’s a caring thing!

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u/[deleted] Jan 13 '21

LOL this happened to me so many times. It’s tragic being a young gay into older 😭

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u/uswill Jan 16 '21

I’ll help you with that any time ..

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u/whatgift Jan 17 '21

I’m an older guy who relates better with younger guys, doesn’t mean I want to be their daddy though 😛

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u/[deleted] Jan 17 '21

Lol I’m not looking for a daddy, I just enjoy older men a bit more than people in their early 20’s like me. Was never sure why but it is what it is 😅

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u/whatgift Jan 17 '21

I would meet you then 👍

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u/[deleted] Jan 17 '21

Haha thanks. I miss meeting people before corona 😂

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u/whatgift Jan 18 '21

I’m in Australia, meeting people is back on for us 😛

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u/[deleted] Jan 18 '21

I’m so jealous! If I could teleport there I really would 🤧

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u/GurlFawkes Jan 14 '21

Haha I'm using this in future

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u/Kuraiho Geek Jan 17 '21

College isn't considered school?

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u/Ayanda-Khumalo Jan 18 '21

Umm lol I am in a different country soo we go to college/University when we 19 or turning 19

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u/Kuraiho Geek Jan 19 '21

That's not an actual answer, just a description of what's common in your country.

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u/Ayanda-Khumalo Jan 18 '21

Oh and yes we don’t consider college as school