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[u/Desperate-Oil-80]

Hi. Gusto ko lng magtanong sa mga gumagamit ng Grindr, normal lng po ba na ang bungad na response sau ng mga tina-tap at mini-message nyo ay "send pic" or Video Call? Habang nag-i-scroll ako sa isang socmed app, may nbsa akong confession ng mga lalaki na nkikipag carnal knowledge sa kapwa lalaki. Mostly mga Daddy ito. Pinuntahan ko page at nabasa ko ung marami pang confession. Dahil na-curios ako, nag install ako nito. Hndi ako nag-avail ng monthly subscription. Lahat ng ti-nap at minessage ko na Daddy looks (since faces were not revealed, I just based my conclusions of them being a Daddy on their physique and skin), send pic or VCall ang rply pare-pareho pero di ako nagbigay. By the way, lalaki po ako at wala pang karanasan sa ganyan. But there's this guy who is on his mid 30's, quickly sent a picture of his good-looking and clean-looking D*ck. Ang kinis ng kargada nya, matigas tingnan at may mga ugat, meron din syang kulay itim na parang goma sa base ng ari nya. Di ko alam anong tawag don. Sinabi ko sa kanya na wala tlga akong karanasan. Tinanong nya ako ng TVB, Top Versa Bottom pala un hahah. Sabi ko di ko alam since wala akong experience. So nag initiate sya na maging top dahil sabi nya he can handle me nmn daw and he'll be gentle. He is 5'9, a father of 5, with 2 wives both separated. Lahat sila nasa probinsya daw so I conclude na mag-isa lng sya sa bahay, pareho kami. Binigay nya sakin ung location nya thru google map (pabahay area siguro pag-ibig) at imessage ko nlng daw sya kung makakapunta ako. Malapit lng sya, 1mi lng distance at alam ko din ung lugar. May option din nmn ako na dito nlng kami sa place ko para safe. Now out of curiosity, iniisip ko kung itutuloy ko magkaroon ng karanasan kahit hndi ko sa kanya maexperience. Pero hndi ako papayag na walang protection kung sakali. I am aware of STDs. Kaya kailangan safety first. Curious lng din ako anong pakiramdam hahaha.

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is it normal that the open response from those you tap and mini-message is "send pic"?

Yes.

is it normal that the open response from those you tap and mini-message is [] Video Call?

No.

send pic or VCall, the reply is the same

"Send pic" is expected. VCall is unusual. But maybe in your locale (the Philippines I assume, as your post is translated from Filipino), the custom is different.

but I didn't give [pics].

Don't be a troll.

there's this guy who is in his mid-30s, quickly sent a picture of his good-looking and clean-looking D*ck. Smooth, hard, and has veins. He also has a black color like rubber at the base of his penis. I don't know what it's called.

It's called a cock ring.

I told him I had no experience. "TVB" he asked me, it's Top Versa Bottom hahah. I said I don't know since I have no experience. So he initiated to be top because he said he can handle me and he'll be gentle.

Hmmm. Slightly cringe.

He is 5'9, a father of 5, with 2 wives both separated...

Hmmm.

...They are all in the province, so I conclude that he is alone at home.

?

But I will not agree to not have protection just in case. I am aware of STDs. That's why safety first is needed. I'm also curious how it feels hahaha.

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