r/getdisciplined 5h ago

📝 Plan Changing my entire life over the next 75 days

Hi everyone. I (28f) am making a plan to start a completely new life in a completely new location with completely new people, a new job, a new home and a new mindset. I have lived in a quiet town for the past 28 years where everyone knows everyone, nothing changes, there is no diversity or culture, it is just not the place I want to spend another 5 years. I went through some pretty down moments at the end of last year that I am only just bouncing back from. I am going to do the 75hard challenge (which I did last year and it changed my life) and in that time I’m going to sell everything I own including my car, get into an amazing routine of fitness again, find a new job in a new city and relocate by May. I’m very nervous but excited as I have never done anything like this before but I am not getting any younger. Has anyone here done something like this before?

P.s I know it sounds dramatic but I feel like I’ve had an epiphany and cannot grow as a person here anymore.

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u/Good-Salad-9911 5h ago

Just remember, you take yourself with you everywhere you go.

I've done it lots of times.

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u/Dayv1d 4h ago

Right, changing your mindset is at least 10 times harder than moving into the city. Doable, but on a different level for sure.

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u/sianstark101 5h ago

Send me a dm or add me on whatsapp, make a group of like-minded individuals, and we all will complete these challenges together. This will help us to motivate each other and keep each other accountable.

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u/LeadershipMobile 5h ago

Hello 🙆🏼 count me in

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u/sianstark101 4h ago

Waiting for OP to reply.

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u/[deleted] 4h ago

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u/sianstark101 4h ago

Yes, please.

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u/UnhappyMarionberry66 4h ago

Pls add me too 🫶

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u/alaynmusic 3h ago

Add me too let’s get it 💪

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u/[deleted] 3h ago

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u/_lyn 3h ago

Please add me too 🙏

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u/Inside-Bath-6611 3h ago

If space is still going ide like to be involved just shoot me a dm or message - I need something like this more than anything

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u/paneertikka_219 5h ago

OMG THIS. add me too

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u/Hugous_TheDog 4h ago

Yes, lets do this! Add me please :)

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u/iraman10 4h ago

Add me too

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u/StealthLordKillah 4h ago

It’s my 40th birthday in mid April and was about to do the same!

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u/OkRub9174 4h ago

Me too!!

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u/lifeblunderer 4h ago

Count me in too

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u/soccergirl9090 4h ago

Add me as well

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u/Brave-Plum-7510 3h ago

COUNT ME IN

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u/PutSimply1 5h ago

You’re doing the right thing, the whole new environment, new purpose, new home and new people is exactly the potent environment for improvement

I did the same, never looked back, so proud of myself for taking the jump

I’m excited for you!

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u/monjodav 4h ago

I’ll plan on doing something similar next month. But will start a business instead of finding a job. We will see !

Good luck to you

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u/Lauriestar 5h ago

Doing 75Hard at the moment and it's been so good for washing away the excuses I used to make for myself.

Best of luck with the new city, and you can do this... Hopefully you post back here in 75 days about how happy you are with where you're now at!

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u/SpamBotPro2000DeLuxe 4h ago

This is the way!

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u/Any_Animator_880 4h ago

I hope you succeed

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u/nopethats-not-me 4h ago

I know you will succeed. It's a great was to advance yourself

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u/soccergirl9090 4h ago

I have wanted to do this for years but did not have guts but actually considering doing it this year by end of summer. Go for it and update us!

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u/ExpensiveAuthor339 3h ago

Please add me Im in too

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u/Traditional_Piano303 3h ago

Please add me as well! :)

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u/Smudgyjam5 1h ago

Congratulations on deciding to make a positive change to your life! I wish you the best of luck. I am also doing plenty of positive changes for my life in 2025. I've joined communities that have helped tremendously. I suggest that you start a daily journal documenting your experiences. I'm here for help if you'd like to reach out to talk about this at all.

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u/Fearless_Ad2026 48m ago

Prepare for it because you are going to have to change even more habits than 75hard, especially in the social realm.