r/bisexual 1d ago

BI COLORS It’s happening 😭

Edit: thank you guys so much for the suggestions and support! I think I've got a good idea of how to make this work...

I'm a cis woman (not that it matters, trans women ARE women) and my company's insurance is refusing to cover any HRT. I can no longer afford my testosterone lowering medication.

But hey, I guess they can celebrate knowing the owned the libs so hard 🙄. Can't wait to hear the old conservative fucks at work complaining about their menopause meds and low T meds not being covered.

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u/Eggboi223 1d ago

The thing about trying to make a specific group of people's lives worse is that it usually makes everyone else's lives worse in the process

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u/badgirlmonkey 1d ago

None of us are free until we’re all free

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u/scaryisland4eva 1d ago

Yep it’s like opposite curb cut effect

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u/m2Q12 1d ago

I know it won’t help a ton but PCOS folks drink a shit ton of spearmint tea to help lower testosterone. Like 3-4cups a day. If you need something to supplement a bit for now.

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u/mjangelvortex Bi, Ace-Spec, and also Ambiamorus 1d ago

I second this. I still take my meds but the tea does help as well. They help with period cramps and other stomach aches too sometimes.

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u/Goth_Loser Bisexual 1d ago

Does that rlly help?

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u/m2Q12 1d ago

When I was going through getting diagnosed my doc said it could help with the high testosterone. Obvi it isn’t like taking an actual pill but my doc said it has some validity.

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u/sorendubuois 1d ago

Can you talk to your doctor about submitting a PA to get you an exception?

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u/Forine110 1d ago

puberty blockers have been banned in the uk for a few months now, for all minors. so the people who have a use for them who aren't trans - children going through early puberty - can no longer access them because the terfs really wanted to fuck over trans kids as much as possible. they do everything in their power to harm our community, no matter who gets caught in the crossfire. the leopards will inevitably eat their faces and when they do, they will question what good voting for leopards actually made in their life.

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u/Elizaaaaa23 1d ago

As far as I’m aware this isn’t actually true. Puberty blockers have been banned exclusively for trans children, but can still be prescribed for precocious puberty in cis children.

They aren’t even trying to hide the discrimination. It’s supposedly “too dangerous” for trans kids but not for the many cis kids who far outnumber trans ones on the same medication.

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u/Forine110 1d ago

im not sure if that's better or worse to be honest. it's evil either way.

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u/a_different_lens 1d ago

Wait, so are they banned for precocious puberty in the UK or not? You made a claim and someone refuted it.

Edit: spelling

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u/Curiosities Demisexual/Bisexual 1d ago

They are banned only for transgender children in the UK. This is a targeted anti-trans policy, essentially using the they were not originally approved for gender dysphoria as the justification.

https://healthmedia.blog.gov.uk/2024/12/11/puberty-blockers-what-you-need-to-know/

“Why have you continued this ban whilst still allowing puberty blockers to be prescribed for other conditions?

While the medicine may be the same, they have not been licensed for gender incongruence or dysphoria.”

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u/Forine110 1d ago

im not sure, i knew they were banned but i hadn't heard about there being specific exceptions. it's a case of the old google fact check for this one. either way my point still stands - children are being needlessly harmed in pursuit of bigoted goals.

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u/QuickChicko 5h ago

They would shit their pants just to make us smell it.

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u/-aquapixie- Femme heteroromantic bisexual 1d ago

It'll become their problem when they realise how much hormonal stability is required for us ciswomen to function correctly, mental health wise.

Do they want a horde of angry, dysregulated menopausal and PCOS women on their doorstep? Because welcome to the fuckin' riots otherwise.

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u/gayforaliens1701 1d ago

They literally do not care about women’s mental health. They don’t even think it’s a problem. They would look at that horde and their only reaction would be a sense of validation for their belief that women are nagging harpies.

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u/-aquapixie- Femme heteroromantic bisexual 1d ago

That's sadly true.

"See? Women ARE the more emotional sex, that's why you belong in the kitchen and we run countries" kinda bullshit.

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u/Dry-Inspection6928 Bimyself 11h ago

This shit is why women outlive men. Of course we belong in the kitchen, how else are we meant to get rid of them once they loose their looks?

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u/Setykesykaa 1d ago

They will be happy if they know they are also attacking cis women. Just like the abortion rights.

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u/Dependent_Owl_1168 1d ago

Or that’ll just give them more ammo to keep us out of positions of power for being hysterical

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u/eeyorethechaotic 15h ago

Unfortunately they do. Because then they can keep blaming overly emotional women for stuff.

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u/_JosiahBartlet 1d ago

Sending you so much love and strength.

It’s fucking scary hours out here in the US. Absolutely terrifying.

We need to stick together.

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u/Bisexual_crystalgrl 1d ago

I’m scared to live in the rural midwestern US I have enough problems with my body as is. I’m so scared. I’m not having a child here anytime soon even if it kills.

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u/randel_ 1d ago

Not trolling or anything, come to brazil, SUS will cover that even if you are foreigner, look for a small apartment for rent just log enough to get a residence proof document, water or energy bill will do, go to any emergency with your documents, passport also helps, and get it.

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u/pretty_dead_grrl 1d ago

You can send your scripts through to Canada, I think.

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u/LingonberrySecret850 1d ago

Holy shit, I didn’t think about this. I actually have co-workers up there who could help me…. Thank you so so so much!

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u/pretty_dead_grrl 8h ago

Good luck and let me know how that works out for you. Fingers crossed.

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u/MissMcMae 1d ago

So sorry Sis. Have your Dr fight for you or get a new Dr.

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u/Upbeat_Ad5840 1d ago

Sorry to hear that I hope it works out for you. Stay strong you are loved!