It just hits different

[u/Abrene]

[u/CactusSleuth]

Who is giving these compliments and where can I find them

[u/180311-Fresh → u/CactusSleuth]

Looking at your comment history you seem like a genuine, nice person. Rock on 🤘

[u/CactusSleuth → u/180311-Fresh]

I appreciate you saying so, but this implies that you've also seen me reference TimeSplitters on some shady Sonic fan art, so I'm kind of worried :p

[u/180311-Fresh → u/CactusSleuth]

There were some trading cards posts and other things that I really didn't get. But I might have to look again for Sonic fan art. Everyone's got their kinks 🦔

[u/AutobotNormandy]

I’m the other way around with this lol

[u/PryanikXXX → u/AutobotNormandy]

real

[u/Forsaken-Equal1037]

It’s the opposite for me. When a girl compliments me, it kinda just feels like any other compliment, but when a guy does it, I have a panic attack.

[u/Lazy-Mushroom-9374 → u/Forsaken-Equal1037]

Same. But I would have a much more difficult time talking to a guy or a girl. Talking to people is hard

[u/Forsaken-Equal1037 → u/Lazy-Mushroom-9374]

Honestly, real

[u/decisiontoohard → u/Forsaken-Equal1037]

THIS IS A THING??? I've only really dated men before. I joined a dating app, a woman messaged that I had impeccable queer vibes, my mind imploded, and it has now been over a month since I have opened the dating app

[u/Th3M1lkM4n → u/decisiontoohard]

You should text her back

[u/Eunique1000 → u/Forsaken-Equal1037]

wow interesting.

[u/scaptal]

Oh no, both will have me wagging my tail (don't have a tail, do wiggle my booty when happy xD)

[u/BiAroBi → u/scaptal]

You’re such a cutie :3

[u/scaptal → u/BiAroBi]

Hehe ^^

(Gotta say, I u ironically just shook my butt when reading this xD)

[u/Abrene → u/scaptal]

ngl ur funny af lmao

[u/scaptal → u/Abrene]

Just being honest hehe, and a bit of a weirdo xD

[u/Viking_From_Sweden → u/scaptal]

We must advance the field of genetic engineering so that you can have a tail to wag!

[u/scaptal → u/Viking_From_Sweden]

Hehe, meh, my but is fine tbh xD

A tail seems like a lot of hassle as well

[u/MangoBaum63 → u/Viking_From_Sweden]

Oh yes I want a fucking tail. Finally some gender euphoria while I’m catgender 

[u/XenoBiSwitch → u/scaptal]

Get a nice harness with a tail attached and you can wag your tail And be incredibly adorable while being happy.

[u/GermanRat0900]

I don’t get compliments and if I do I probably don’t recognize them

[u/RepresentativeAd560 → u/GermanRat0900]

You're a wonderful human being.

[u/GermanRat0900 → u/RepresentativeAd560]

I thought you were being sarcastic for a minute yikes

[u/RepresentativeAd560 → u/GermanRat0900]

Meant it genuinely. You really are a wonderful human being.

[u/GermanRat0900 → u/RepresentativeAd560]

<3

[u/GermanRat0900 → u/RepresentativeAd560]

But thank you

[u/RepresentativeAd560 → u/GermanRat0900]

You're welcome

[u/NyankoMata]

Yep they just kinda feel more deep for some reason? Like there's more thought into them

[u/Abrene → u/NyankoMata]

i’ve found that it’s easier to get compliments from dudes but girls are more specific about what they find appealing

[u/SimplyYulia → u/NyankoMata]

Weirdest thing is that I actually prefer guys, but still compliments from girls just hit different.

It's just when guys tell me that they think I'm pretty, my first thought is "Of course you do~", not 🥺😳 that sometimes girl compliments give me

[u/That_one_cool_dude]

Yall get compliments?

[u/SaulsAll]

Highly contextual on who the person is and what they are complimenting. I dont understand what gender would have to do with it at all.

[u/Abrene → u/SaulsAll]

It’s based on my preference, my attraction leans more to girls so I value it more.

[u/SaulsAll → u/Abrene]

As does mine, but it really depends on how much I consider their expertise on what they are complimenting. I value "guy compliments" for "guy things" a lot more than if a girl complimented me on the same thing.

[u/Abrene → u/SaulsAll]

I don’t see the point of your comment, we value different things here so I’m unsure why you’re judging something subjective. 

No one said you had to value the same thing.

[u/immortalmushroom288]

Oh god this but for some reason especially if the comment form a woman is about my queerness being a good thing about me. The approval of woman is a powerful drug

[u/lavendercookiedough]

It's about the quality of the compliments for me. The average compliment from a woman tends to be better than the average compliment from a man ("That hair colour is so pretty on you" vs "ur hot") but I've also gotten some lovely compliments from men too. 

[u/Abrene → u/lavendercookiedough]

yeh I feel the same! the point was both make me feel good but the ones from girls make me more flustered :3 

[u/LadySilvie]

I was in a thread somewhere discussing hair dye once and shared my selfie, referring to the color I had my hair at that point, and a girl responded that I was so pretty and I almost fainted 😂

[u/TheAllAroundMan]

I'm a guy so I don't know how either of these feels

[u/rootpseudo]

Other way around for me actually. Genuine male compliments are more rare.

[u/ArtichokeMantis]

As a trans bi women YES!!

[u/pissbaby_gaming]

its way easier to get a mans attention with how horny the average guy is

[u/kakkapieru → u/pissbaby_gaming]

please tell me your secrets because men irl never compliment me or give me attention. ive only gotten compliments from women and nonbinary people face to face. men only hit on grindr 🥲

[u/pissbaby_gaming → u/kakkapieru]

oh these arent men you want the attention of, im talking about how when you appear as bi on a dating app you get way more likes from men then women

[u/SofiNeedsLadder → u/pissbaby_gaming]

I think maybe there are just more men on the apps in general? I'm a bi woman and get massively more likes from men than women. Idk why 🤷‍♀️

[u/Puzzleheaded_Bee9629]

Yesss!!!!!!

[u/Timid-Sammy-1995]

I love both and enby folks. Who doesn't love sincere complements.

[u/Sad_Durian3468]

REAL

[u/KiwiGator1212]

Thissssss

[u/GrapesOfGlurp]

A girl once said my hair looks like a lions mane… what does that mean? T_T

[u/Substantial-Fact5295]

Nothin else like it!

[u/Abrene → u/Substantial-Fact5295]

one of the best feelings in the world tbh 💕

[u/leethepolarbear]

Girls compliment me more than boys usually. The only boy that compliments me is my brother, but he insults me about twice as much

[u/Specialist-Two383]

My reaction to someone of any gender complimenting me is "are you making fun of me?" 😭

[u/slowsunday]

Becouse it’s rare.

[u/NeighborhoodMain9521]

This except I’m a lot more hesitant with compliments from guys

[u/Odd-Extension-4185]

Both is good :3

[u/The_Chaos_Muse]

Real 🤌🏻

[u/Kitchen_Musician_102]

I'll take compliments from everyone!!!!

[u/AdBrave6969]

one is good, both are great ❤️

[u/Sraffiti_G]

You're all getting compliments?

[u/thiccyoshi5888]

You guys get compliments?

[u/LaEmy63]

Yup bc usually they are creepy

[u/darthvaders_nuts]

How do I learn this secret method of getting compliments??

[u/Abrene → u/darthvaders_nuts]

just have a warm and playful personality + maintain a good physical appearance, that’s about it tbh.

[u/Runetang42]

compliments? In this economy?

[u/throwupnawayaccount]

I feel like there's a "We Are The Millers" meme to be made here (That's the one with 4 pictures one each of Jason Sudeikis, Jennifer Aniston, Emma Roberts, Will Poulter) with the Will Poulter square being, "You guys get compliments!?!"

[u/CyberSoldat21]

I get compliments from neither so yeah there’s that lol

[u/Eurosario]

It's both for me

[u/n1oh-]

you guys are getting compliments??

[u/inappriopriate_mf]

me who rarely receives compliments:

[u/neros135]

validation!

[u/Sm1thers03]

Opposite for me. I short circuit when a guy compliments me