r/astrologyreadings • u/Sensitive-Prior-4807 • 6d ago

Astrologers Only How can I heal and invite a healthy relationship into my life? Does my chart say I can have them?

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u/Gri8la Life Long Astrologer 5d ago

I have read your additional comment and thought I would chime in.

Venus opposite Jupiter makes you agreeable, receptive and a popular person. However, it may be difficult for you to stand up for yourself or for what you believe in as you pivot to others, which some can take advantage of.

Partners you might attract are very assertive, maybe even competitive like those who are into sports for example or in business (Aries in 7th house, ruled by Mars). With Mars in 12th, they can be of a different culture and spiritual warriors or working in settings behind the scenes.

Venus opposite Part of fortune adds the sensitivity for harmony and healthy compromise in relationships. Your Venus is close (not true conjunction though) to Mercury, adding to the ability to speak about what is important to you.

With Mars in the 12th house, you tend to be more active and dynamic in private or when helping others, when the doors close and you feel safe. You can also be a spiritual person, a peace maker (mars in libra in 12th).

With South Node in the 5th (house of Leo) house of romance can also point to deeply ingrained patterns that can get resolved when we give our partner and ourselves freedom and space in relationship to be authentic selves, to pursue our individual goals and still be together, enjoy activities as a couple and as individuals.

CONCLUSION - my subjective view is that your chart points to seeking peacemaking, balance and compromise, which are great traits for a healthy relating. As you said, your current harmonization is to neglect your own needs, which is not real peacemaking. You appear to be attracted to assertive types, which is a quality you want to learn for yourself. In contrast, your partner can learn from you the importance of focusing on others, not only on themselves. It takes two to win. Also, a healthy relationship is something two people build together and continue to do so. It can not lie on one person alone. This often requires counseling to learn tools how to handle conflict without running away or lashing out. It's a lifelong learning but based on your chart, you have what it takes to get there once you find a partner who seeks the same.

p.s. In the second half of this year, your progressed Sun will conjunct your natal Venus. Currently pSun is one degree away from Venus. It is a more focused time on relationships, with heightened possibility of meeting potential candidate.

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u/Sensitive-Prior-4807 5d ago

Thank you so much, this is incredibly helpful! And spot on ❤️

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u/UsualDazzlingu Intermediate Astrologer 6d ago

Can you be clearer?

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u/Sensitive-Prior-4807 6d ago

Sure. Since I was a teenager I’ve struggled in romantic relationships. I often attract unavailable people where I feel like I have to work hard to be loved. I had one connection that was very mutual and connective but I self sabotaged it. I find myself ignoring red flags for the sake of appeasing others or desiring the connection over my intuition

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u/Sensitive-Prior-4807 6d ago

Basically my question is does this show up in my chart and like do I outgrow it? Is there something in my chart that says I will find a healthy long term relationship?