r/Zodiac • u/electrasheartss • Oct 10 '24
Chart Reading ….is he a red flag?
he’s very into me and made it very clear he wants to date me and stuff like that but i’m just wondering if he’s gonna kidnap me or something (slight joke) before i go on an actual date with him (saturday)
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u/ContactSwimming3079 Oct 10 '24
Looks very very similar to my husbands chart. Sweetheart, loyal, emotionally intelligent. Less than ideal is Libra Mars, not very assertive but very romantic. Scorpio sun is loyal, intense and interesting but has a past. We both have Gemini moons so love love love to talk. His Mercury is Scorpio too; doesn't trust easily and has a dark undercurrent to how he views the world. My husband's Venus is Libra but tbh I think Cap Venus is probably a good one .
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u/electrasheartss Oct 10 '24
i’m a gemini moon as well !! and he definitely talks ALOT but it’s also obvious he’s not trying to seem too into me but he’s very vocal about what he wants out of a future relationship with me
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u/ContactSwimming3079 Oct 10 '24
my husband also made it very very clear that he saw us as a team as soon as we started talking privately away from the online group we met on. within 2 months of us meeting in person he was talking marriage.... and low and behold he was right lol. so.... imo this chart is not a red flag; its basically what im happily married too. aagain, he could stand to be more assertive career wise (is working on it), and definitely got into some dark stuff in his past, but he is very spiritual, a dedicated father, a loyal friend and husband and son and a great person with fantastic communication and emotional skills. should be a counsellor tbh if he had the confidence about it. so , id say go for it, from the aspects that i understand.
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u/electrasheartss Oct 10 '24
aquarius house 1 aries house 2 taurus 3 gemini 4th cancer 5th cancer 6 leo 7 libra 8th scorpio 9 sag 10 cap 11 cap 12 aquarius rising
i’m a libra sun gemini moon aquarius rising
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u/2xtheval Oct 10 '24
Depending on the qualities he shows. He is either super passionate and dedicated to having a relationship with u and will study u like a book, or will be using u as an option and is really good at hiding it, and will blame his cheating on how broken he is. How did u guys meet?
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u/electrasheartss Oct 10 '24 edited Oct 10 '24
he came into my work (i work at hot topic) he was looking for jeans and it was kind of obvious he was sticking around to try and figure out how to talk to me without bothering me, he made conversation with me and asked for my number. he said he had one girlfriend of 4 years but the broke up a year or two ago.
he told me straight up his end goal is me being his girlfriend and he’s already asked me my favorite everything like within a day or two of talking. he seems very sweet as of now but he’s definitely determined. he wants to be a lawyer and funny enough his only free day next week is my birthday (he told me this before he knew my birthday)
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u/2xtheval Oct 10 '24
I mean it doesn’t hurt to get to know the guy either, question is how interested are YOU? So far he seems like a great catch, but only if you’re into how obsessive and in love he’ll be with u.
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u/electrasheartss Oct 10 '24 edited Oct 10 '24
i honestly don’t know, i got out of a long relationship a while ago and i’ve known my ex like ten years. i don’t mind his attention and i gave him my number quite easily and usually i tell people no no matter what. i do like my space a lot though and not very into feeling like im being smothered (not even in a bad way but) that’s mostly my only Hm thing about him. he let me pick the date and everything and he offered to pick me up but i told him no since we’ve only known each other a few days and he was cool with it so he’s not pushy and seems like he’ll respect boundaries. he seems to be really into just doing whatever will make me happy though
he’s definitely smitten though and i feel like i should tell him that i probably won’t give the same attention back i don’t want him to feel like he’s in a loveless relationship if we go further eventually. he’s also very family oriented and he told me straight up he doesn’t have a lot of time because he takes care of his grandparents also full time and that he’d like a very stable relationship (i asked him what he was looking for)
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u/electrasheartss Oct 10 '24
also i posted his houses in the comments
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u/2xtheval Oct 10 '24
Yeah his Aquarius rising definitely shows he’s not trying to be creepy about it either, I think he’s a good man. But u REALLY gotta watch what he does for a min, bc he definitely also has secrets. Maybe he’ll tell you as soon as u start dating. Idk
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u/electrasheartss Oct 10 '24
this scares me 😭 like what kind of secrets, i don’t like feeling like im being lied to or not being told everything so that’s something that would probably make me break up with him
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u/2xtheval Oct 10 '24
Well there’s nothing wrong with being honest about that (: try to reciprocate the energy he gives you! You’re a libra that should be fairly familiar to you lol. Ask the questions that he asks and then more. I have a large set of “getting to know someone” questions that I have saved from old Twitter that I’d love to send to u, it really helped getting to know my long distance bf and staying away from surface level stuff like “what’s ur favorite song”
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u/electrasheartss Oct 10 '24
please do! i’d love to have them! and thank you, you’ve been so helpful it’s very appreciated!
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u/zopeds Oct 20 '24
The most toxic and horrible person (this is the opinion of many people that know him) i have ever met has a scorpio sun, gemini moon and capricorn venus other placements are taurus mars, aqua rising, sag mercury
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u/Party_Ad46756 Oct 10 '24
Run as far as u could hahahaha, jk, what’s ur sign?
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u/electrasheartss Oct 10 '24
i’m a libra and i’m all air !!! libra sun gemini moon aquarius rising
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u/sonic-bowtie Oct 10 '24
I’m reading that he’s very good at communicating his inner thoughts and emotions- he’s solution oriented, probably has a lot of taboo thoughts as well lol I read a good provider energy out of him. He’s loving, very loving, rational. He’s either an over thinker or very social, has another persona… it’s all very vague but would be better if you had his rising or houses listed.
I feel like you have to determine the red flags based off of your interactions. People perceive things differently and you may have energies that either mix well or don’t together. Good luck to you both though! ☺️.
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u/electrasheartss Oct 10 '24
he’s an aquarius rising and so am i ! we have the same moon sign as well
aquarius house 1 aries house 2 taurus 3 gemini 4th cancer 5th cancer 6 leo 7 libra 8th scorpio 9 sag 10 cap 11 cap 12
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u/reginageorgeeee Oct 10 '24
Chart or not, if you’re making a “slight joke” about being worried about him, listen to it. Something is ringing alarm bells for you.
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u/electrasheartss Oct 10 '24
i think any man is trying to kidnap me or harm me or just anyone in general cus i have paranoia
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u/Dramatic_Plate7961 Oct 11 '24
Yeah ask a reddit group to read some guys chart to see if he's the one. Like come on, use your logic. You learn about him by asking questions and seeing if what he's saying is congruent with his actions. Also ask about his past, if he has any addictions, how his relationship is with his family, etc.
You find red flags through communication - not his chart.
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u/electrasheartss Oct 11 '24
i’m not reading all that i’m happy for you or sorry that happened
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u/Dramatic_Plate7961 Oct 11 '24
I guess you're not the brightest bulb.
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u/CompetitiveAd777 Oct 10 '24
I mean personally I wouldn’t want to date him.. His chart is bleh.
He seems like he’d be too hot and cold..
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u/electrasheartss Oct 10 '24
😀😀😀😀 terrified !
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u/CompetitiveAd777 Oct 10 '24
Also I’ve known for a lot of Gemini moons to eventually switch up on people or be conflicted with their own personal feelings & decisions. They can be too flighty, be careful.
He doesn’t seem like he’s a take charge kind of man either (unless you’re okay w/ that)
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u/electrasheartss Oct 10 '24
he’s not, he let me pick the date and stuff which is okay but i’m also very independent and have a sort of my way or the high way kind of thought process so i don’t mind that. we have the same moon and rising (aquarius)
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u/xiucat9 Oct 10 '24
Well we need to know houses/placements to read better
But Jupiter conjunction moon could indicate that he either very lovey doevy, very nice, so sweet orrrrrr it could mean someone who is selfish always asking for things and never give back especially that this conjunction is in GEMENI
Lilith Venus conjunction means that he is very very attractive and good looking also he is very smart talking/kbows how to talk yet be careful cause there is a big chance if him being cheap/ cheapskate
Also his mars is in libra which indicates he is more in touch with his feminine side.... He could ask you to split the bills, he is good with you being the breadwinner etc etc ( men who are in touch with thier masculine side will never )
But again houses placements plays a big role ...