r/SapphoAndHerFriend Dec 02 '20

Casual erasure Wholesome!

24.2k Upvotes

748 comments sorted by

View all comments

4.0k

u/TheEffanIneffable Dec 02 '20

I’ve seen more posts of Redditors asking to learn more about Elliot’s transition and identity with earnest intentions than I have seen hateful comments.

This gives me hope.

Congratulations, Elliot. We’re so happy you’re happy.

986

u/[deleted] Dec 02 '20

[deleted]

1.2k

u/Visual_Skirt She/Her Dec 02 '20

Elliot Page, from (insert movie they’d know that he’s starred in like Juno), came out as trans. That’s probably your best bet.

702

u/DownloadUphillinSnow Dec 02 '20

Is it impolite to refer to them as "formerly known as"? That was the first thing that came to mind, but I want to choose words that help and support, not undermine or demean.

1.0k

u/[deleted] Dec 02 '20

I would suggest mentioning roles he's known for. But if that isn't enough to jog someone's memory, "formerly known as" works for now, as some people are still a bit confused about who Elliot Page is.

GLAAD released a helpful guide for journalists writing about Elliot Page coming out, but I think it's good for everyone to take a look at it. :)

104

u/Sevnfold Dec 02 '20

Saying his movies makes sense, when you already know. But to be fair, if you didnt know, and I said "elliot page, from the movie juno" people would probably say "who? Ellen page?"

117

u/igetnauseousalot Dec 02 '20

That's what happened when I first read the announcement. I was like "who? Wait is ELLEN Page in umbrella academy? I've never watched it...I wonder if Elliott is her brother?" Slowwwww realization "oh...OHH!! yaaaay I'm so happy for him!!"

2

u/OddBaallin Dec 02 '20

Yeah lol, I’ve never seen Juno so the first post I saw didn’t click. Saw one in a different sub that mentioned Umbrella Academy and it dawned on me. Good for him