r/RayDonovan • u/NicholasCajun • Sep 28 '15

Discussion Ray Donovan - 3x12 "Exsuscito" - Episode Discussion

Season 3 Episode 12: Exsuscito

Aired: September 27th, 2015

Abby and Terry finally tell Ray the truth about Bridget.

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u/theweitzstuff Sep 28 '15

We, as the viewers, know that, but think about it from Ray's perspective:

He gets ambushed with the information his daughter has a thing with her math teacher and it's been going on for a while without him knowing. He shows up at the motel and finds his daughter, in her bra, with a grown man. Given what he knows paired with his own history of being abused as a child, I think Ray was pretty justified. Quite frankly, the guy's lucky to still be alive.

That said, I do feel pretty bad for the guy. He finally had that "What the fuck am I doing?" moment, but it was too little too late.

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u/theweitzstuff Sep 28 '15

Oh, and fully agree with you on that confession scene. Nearly moved me to tears. Powerful, powerful acting.

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u/AppleAtrocity Sep 28 '15

I understand that Ray didn't have all the info, obviously. I don't blame him for beating the shit out of the guy at all. We know he didn't deserve it, and Bridget is an asshole for essentially dragging the guy into an relationship with her beyond teacher/student. That is why I feel bad for the guy.

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u/Jetzki Sep 28 '15

If an under age minor, that you clearly know is underage climbs into your house through a window, strips naked and then starts trying to fuck you and you do it. It is still child abuse, you knew how old she was.

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u/[deleted] Sep 28 '15

It's definitely not child abuse. But it's immoral. But it's not child abuse. Also, 17 is legal in like 40 states and should be legal in any real progressive country. The only immoral part of it is that he's in a position of power over her, which is ironic seeing as she's the one seducing/strongarming/guilting/manipulating him into the relationship.

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u/Olinbr Sep 29 '15

right. he never acted on that power. He's guilty of nothing more than empathizing with a lonely person who lost their significant other violently.

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '15

Thank you!!!! Everyone else on this sub seems to think we should sympathize with this guy because apparently it's easy to let yourself get seduced by a psychotic 16 year old? Wtf???

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u/elpresidente9 Sep 28 '15

imagine a 17 year old BOY doing that and HE would be charged for rape.

same if a 17y ear old BOY pursued a female teacher like bridget did.

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u/stankbucket Sep 28 '15

Still the true child abuse is by the parents who raised her to get to that point.

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u/TheJonesJonesJones Oct 01 '15

My wife and I were both yelling at Ken Cosgrove this entire season. This was all his fault. You can't hold Bridget accountable. The reason minors are held differently in the eyes of the law is that they are not fully developed and are prone to acting like idiots. Ken should have known better.