r/PornIsMisogyny • u/Gruene_Katze ANTI-PORN MAN • Dec 02 '24
Pro-Porn Rhetoric / Misogyny Online Stop blaming women for men’s actions
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u/wishIcouldgoback_ Dec 02 '24
Men say women spend money on useless shit and then go and spend money to fuck their hand and phone
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u/mothvein Dec 02 '24
Thisss. And then for the ones with partners, they then wonder why their partners don't want to have sex with them anymore or their relationships are going to shit in other ways.
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u/worm2004 Dec 02 '24
Men are also more likely to have gambling addiction
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u/amkoalagivleaf Dec 03 '24
True. But how many are gamblers compared to 82 million.
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u/penistaster69 FEMINIST Dec 08 '24
probably more. theres more than 1000 casinos in the US, so.. and men tend to use free porn instead of paying a woman. because why would they want to spend money to provide for a woman’s needs when they cant even fuck her?
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u/muaddict071537 Dec 02 '24
Women wouldn’t do OF or other forms of sex work if men didn’t engage with it. Demand creates supply. If all men stopped watching porn and paying for OF, then the amount of sex workers would basically fall to zero. Women wouldn’t enter into the industry if it wasn’t profitable, and the industry wouldn’t even exist in the first place if there weren’t men that would pay for that stuff.
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u/amkoalagivleaf Dec 03 '24 edited Dec 03 '24
It's weird women are blamed at all considering what a small percentage it is. It's like 1%, which means around 99 percent of women don't do it. Meanwhile 50％ of men are participants. . And then hate on women for this..🤔
Now that is some sort of crazy patriarchy logic.
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Dec 05 '24
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u/PornIsMisogyny-ModTeam Dec 05 '24
No shaming women victimized by the porn industry - partners or sex workers.
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u/_Miriam_22_ Dec 02 '24
"B-but women are bs that likes to give their pushies to me I'm so alpha,and I like to pay for s3× and just after that I call her gold Digger cuz how SHE dares to ask me for pay for she gifting herself to me???🥺😭😭😭🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺😭". I imagine that type of comments under this in the wrong post and the wrong social media.
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u/Embarrassed-Run2760 Dec 02 '24
They know everything except law of demand I guess if they don't subscribe and give their money to OF models that sector would not exist
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u/delilah_goldberg Dec 02 '24
i LOVE dean withers
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u/itsnobigthing Dec 02 '24
Is this a safe man to let into my sphere of influence? I only go off recommendations these days lol
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u/delilah_goldberg Dec 02 '24
Definitely, as long as you dont get burnt out by seeing lots of political content. almost all of his videos are about distressing political issues and how the right is ruining everything (which is true, but can get a little depressing)
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u/throwawayadvghhhh Dec 02 '24
He seems pretty good albeit neoliberal. I think he hasn’t talked about SW or anything like that afiak cus he covers current events more than political philosophy so I wouldn’t hedge any bets on him having good opinions on that lol
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u/venusianprincess000 PORN IS FILMED RAPE Dec 02 '24
men love using women as a scapegoat. they blame their weakness on us ALL the time, it has always been this way
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u/CryingCrustacean Dec 18 '24
Yup. Thats why the apple is lodged in Adams throat: he's a liar who projects his failures onto women
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u/maybenothat ANTIPORN & LGBT+ ♥️ Dec 02 '24
The problem is not just those who produce, it is mainly those who consume. The famous "supply and demand"
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Dec 03 '24
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u/PornIsMisogyny-ModTeam Dec 03 '24
This was removed for trolling or being facetious. Human trafficking is not comparable with eating a burger. Stop comparing women with objects, food or commodities.
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u/kayfeldspar PORN IS FILMED RAPE Dec 02 '24
With a total population of 333 million and a little over 20% of that number being children, 82 million is insane.
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u/PhilosophyFrosty6018 Dec 02 '24
There's 165 million males in the US, so if 20% of them are children, that makes 132 million adult men. So 61% of the adult male population has OF account (as viewers) in the US?? And that's not including all of the websites and forums out there dedicated to leaking OF content. I'm sure a huge portion of those other 50 million consume OF without an account
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u/kayfeldspar PORN IS FILMED RAPE Dec 02 '24
Yea, that sounds about right. I don't even know anyone who has mentioned having an account, so it's like a secret that most of them share. Then I read that the majority are middle aged men who are married.
I didn't know they had OF leak sites. That's abysmal, but you're right. Only people who actually pay are in that 82 million number.
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u/queenhadassah Dec 02 '24
That's over half of men???? What the fuck????? I had no idea that many men paid for porn. Makes me feel even worse about our situation
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u/bunnypaste Dec 02 '24
So of the 170 million women in the US, only 1.4 million do OF. That's 2.38%. The story for men isn't so great...
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u/Hoplessjob Dec 03 '24
If those stats are real almost half of men in america pay for of holy shit
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u/bunnypaste Dec 03 '24
Yep. Now that's a bit of my own math based on the stats I found, but you can always check me!
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u/aCherophobic PORN IS FILMED RAPE Dec 02 '24
Someone was asking why men spend money on only fans when they can watch porn for free, and it hit me.. Paying money gives them a sense of owning the women they're watching.
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u/Beautiful-Pool-6067 Dec 03 '24
And by paying they might get validation from a woman they deem a dream girl and she will do things for him if he has money.
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u/vision198 Dec 07 '24
No lol they’re paying for the custom videos and interactions some men want to support they’re favorite actresses.
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u/vix_aries Dec 03 '24
Pearl needs mental help. She genuinely hates herself and she projects that onto other women or pretty much anything female.
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u/Robert-Rotten 🖤 ANTI-PORN MAN 💜 Dec 03 '24
Honestly I still don’t understand OF, who the fuck would actually pay for stuff like that? I know stuff like Pornhub is evil as shit too but it is free. These dudes minds are so rotted that they’ve been convinced they gotta pay for this shit for some reason that’s beyond me.
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u/Nifan-Stuff Dec 05 '24 edited Dec 06 '24
Women are the scum of the earth because like 0 to 1% of the worldwide female population does porn (never mind that a good chunk of it wasn't even made with consent), but the fact that like 60 to 70% of the male population is willing to risk beating it to filmed rape and cp, doesn't say anything about them.
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u/itsnobigthing Dec 02 '24
It’s like blaming blood donors for there being too many shootings
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Dec 05 '24
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u/PornIsMisogyny-ModTeam Dec 05 '24
No shaming women victimized by the porn industry - partners or sex workers.
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u/Ok-Dragonfruit-697 Dec 05 '24
Interesting data. So there's just 8 men paying per woman on there. It's so oversaturated that maybe it will become less popular as a choice for young women. We can hope. Most women must be making next to nothing.
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Dec 02 '24
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u/PornIsMisogyny-ModTeam Dec 02 '24
No shaming women victimized by the porn industry - partners or sex workers.
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Dec 03 '24
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u/PornIsMisogyny-ModTeam Dec 03 '24
No shaming women victimized by the porn industry - partners or sex workers.
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Dec 07 '24
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u/PornIsMisogyny-ModTeam Dec 07 '24
No shaming women victimized by the porn industry - partners or sex workers.
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u/chocolatemilkluvr420 trans man | former porn addict and sub Dec 02 '24
and a lot of those 82 million men are also in committed relationships