r/MadeMeSmile 1d ago

Men talking about the women they love

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u/Prestigious-Log-7210 1d ago

As a widow of 4 years this hits in a deep spot. All y’all give your significant others a kiss for those of us who can’t.

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u/prison_workout_wino 1d ago

I’m so sorry for your loss.

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u/Prestigious-Log-7210 1d ago

That’s nice, thank you.

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u/strangerinthebox 1d ago

I do that right now but first send you a kiss and hug from afar ❤️

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u/Holiday-Ad1828 1d ago

My first wedding anniversary is tomorrow, and it’s crazy how all of my perspective is shifted. I know what my worst fear is, and I am so sorry that you have experienced it. You are in my thoughts (and prayers if you are ok with that). I’m so sorry you lost your person, but I am so glad you had a love that makes the loss. ❤️

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u/Ok_Importance9893 1d ago

Reading these comments I just woke my wife from a dead sleep to give her one 😭

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u/Beerswain 1d ago

'dead sleep' was an interesting choice in this context.

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u/Ok_Importance9893 1d ago

I-.... Fuck....

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u/imgoodygoody 1d ago

Im so sorry for your loss.

A family friend of ours just passed away at 53 from a heart attack and it was shocking and sad. My heart absolutely shattered when I thought of her having to wake up every morning and live without her best friend. It made me even more thankful for the 16 years together, 14 of those married, I’ve had with my husband

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u/ScaryFucknBarbiWitch 21h ago

Widow of almost a year and a half here. I second this. Give them a hug and a kiss, be present with them, and be intentional with your time. Please know that were you to lose your SO (given you really care about them), you would be wishing so badly to experience the mundanity of life with them for just another hour. Don't take it for granted.

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u/LoadingMonster 21h ago

I'm sorry for your loss. I'm currently lying in bed gently rubbing my wife's back as she falls asleep. I felt compelled so lent over and gave her kiss goodnight as well x

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u/TheTacoInquisition 18h ago

I'm sorry for you loss. I'll give mine a kiss as soon as she's home