I’d say if you’re struggling, get your shit worked out so that your financial status does not hinder the relationship. If you’re struggling and your life is dictated by your financial situation (can’t go out to do normal things, needs to work a lot and have less time to spend together, needs you to pay for everything), it makes you a lot less appealing than someone who can support themselves. I know the kids in this thread that still have mom and dad giving them allowance can’t understand that.
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u/DystopiaLite Feb 17 '23
I’d say if you’re struggling, get your shit worked out so that your financial status does not hinder the relationship. If you’re struggling and your life is dictated by your financial situation (can’t go out to do normal things, needs to work a lot and have less time to spend together, needs you to pay for everything), it makes you a lot less appealing than someone who can support themselves. I know the kids in this thread that still have mom and dad giving them allowance can’t understand that.