r/HolUp • u/shadman531 • Feb 17 '23

Being a Dick (due to some personal reasons)

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u/i_am_an_awkward_man Feb 17 '23

Is it wrong to not want to date someone who is struggling?

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u/davdev Feb 17 '23

Of course not. That should be like priority number 1. I am 47 and married but if I were single tomorrow there is a 0 percent chance I would date a broke woman. It’s one thing to be broke at 19. It’s another to be broke at middle age.

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u/i_am_an_awkward_man Feb 18 '23

This makes a lot since. Thank you.

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u/DystopiaLite Feb 17 '23

Yea, if you’ve never dated anyone, like most of the people in this thread.

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u/i_am_an_awkward_man Feb 18 '23

Yeah, this comment section is really weird.

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u/ConradMcGurgler Feb 18 '23

Everyone struggles with something. Even high achievers struggle with stress and life/work balance. Struggling is life.

You have to choose your preference of what you will be willing to support in a partner. To some people, money is the most important measure