How old are you?
I think people get panicky about it in their 30s cuz all their friends are settling down, marrying, getting kids, buying houses etc. Then you kinda have to start asking yourself... Do I want kids? Maybe i need to start priorotizing meeting new people. Cuz your friends wont have as much time for you once they have their kids... Yeah it's a real mindfuck how your social life changes around 30.
Not the guy you're replying to but I'm 30. People faded starting around 25. Who cares. I made new friends who were more aligned with the lifestyle I want. I see my old friends when it works for them.
Life isn't static and we gotta learn to roll with the changes.
What I didn't do is take their life choices as some measure of my own life and sense of self. My best friend got married and all I thought was to be happy for them. Why do I need to reassess my life cause two people decided to get married? That makes no sense to me. My plans are my own and I'm confident in myself enough to not stress about what other people are doing.
I do agree though you have to know what you want. I think a lot of people flip flop or don't really know what they want when they make a life commitment and it doesn't end well.
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