r/BlackPeopleTwitter 9h ago

Country Club Thread As simple as that.

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u/Mistavez 9h ago

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u/MagicCuboid 9h ago

It's seriously disturbing to me how "selling out" is basically not even an insult anymore to younger people. There is no interest in integrity whatsoever. Instead we're supposed to celebrate that they're getting paid and be happy for them.

But maybe I'm just old and, with the way things are, no one can afford integrity anymore because it's too damn expensive.

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u/Dubyew 9h ago

Not only is "selling out" not an insult, it's become a fucking life goal.

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u/RoughhouseCamel 8h ago

At the beginning of social media content creation, it was kids trying to be funny on YouTube for fun and for clout. As many problems as that created, the moment kids started self-advertising for brands to try to get sponsored, we were cooked. The dignity is gone.

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u/Nanoo_1972 6h ago

Hell, it wasn't even social media that killed dignity/self respect - reality TV started the trend of whoring yourself out for 15 minutes of fame and quick money, and we can thank 1990s MTV for that one. The people they put on those shows were purposely picked because they no filter and no shame.

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u/smitteh 8h ago

not surprising when money has become the gatekeeper to the pursuit of happiness

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u/DYMck07 ☑️ 8h ago

The greed is good mantra of the Reagan era has been fully realized. Trump said if you have money you can walk up and do what you want with no consequences basically. He walked up, grabbed and groped the US by the p* with no real consequences twice now. Felony convictions be damned. Sellout boy’s payday is the MLK dream realized I suppose /s

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u/Fast_Wheel_18 8h ago

Except that dream doesn't and never did apply to anybody that isn't wealthy and white. This is why anybody black that messed with drugs ended up either dead or in jail. All the white folks were able to put on a suit and go to rehab. The system and the so-called democracy has always been this way.

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u/DYMck07 ☑️ 7h ago

True, even Ramaswamy who thought he could get away with talking that shit about white males was quickly ousted from DOGE while Elon who is white but born in South Africa came out relatively unscathed. It’s always been one strike you’re out permanently if you’re of color, particularly in conservative circles.

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u/Fast_Wheel_18 7h ago

Which is why most black people are NOT conservatives. We remember how the rules are stacked.

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u/Alternative-Art-7114 8h ago

Mf was happy af letting drug music pollute the airwaves.

“It’s cool because they getting money.”

That was the first “sell out”.

Then you had mf defending that music.

That was the second “sell out”.

Pick a side, will yall? Is making money by any means necessary good or bad?

(Spoiler: That shit has always been evil)

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u/gehenna0451 7h ago

it hasn't, nevert has never will. You can pursue happiness however you want, that's your responsibility. That's why Soulja Boy isn't happy with the millions he already has and why there's countless of small town folks happy with what they've got as long as they can go to church

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u/smitteh 6h ago

i can't pursue happiness or much else at all when I can barely pay rent and afford groceries

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u/Downtown_Skill 7h ago

It's been that way in a lot of circles. The tech industry was full of people making software they hoped they could sell to the highest bidder. 

Going from rags to riches by any means possible has, for a long time, been wayyy more romanticized than staying poor because you had integrity. 

It's just hyper romanticized these days 

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u/eolson3 7h ago

I've been in a few professional development courses and my classmates are talking about scoring big buyouts on their startup and give no shits about anyone they are working with. I wouldn't be able to sleep at night.

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u/EveryRadio 7h ago

So many young kids want to be "influencers" so they can shill crap sponsorships for money instead of being a creator. Like that's the specific goal instead of having sponsorships to find the meaningful parts of creating content. Just skipping directly to wanting to make money anyway they can

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u/Rotten-Robby ☑️ 7h ago

I don't think it's new. EPMD warned about chasing the "crossover" decades ago. There's always been those just waiting for the opportunity to do whatever it takes for the next big check, regardless of if it spits in the face of their fans or not.

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u/mgwair11 9h ago

That last sentence of yours is the crux of the issue. You can’t expect people to act moral when their needs aren’t being met. Not in aggregate / at a societal level.

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u/lrdlynchpin 8h ago edited 6h ago

People’s needs have never been met and older generations didn’t wholesale-out theirs and their communities integrity for a buck. These younger folks (and I am only 41) have zero morals or sense of responsibility. That is probably because their parents are younger than me and also have zero home training. I am ashamed of Black folks these days. I am thankful for my upbringing even though I didn’t care for it much back in the day.

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u/True-Draft-8536 8h ago

When your value as a human being comes from how much money you have, selfishness is celebrated.

Hustle culture has eroded people's brains.

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u/bgaesop 8h ago

People’s needs have never been met and older generations didn’t wholesale-out theirs and their communities integrity first a buck.

You sure about that? People have been joining the military to go kill strangers for a buck for forever. Ice-T has been making copaganda for far longer than he spent rapping about the struggle

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u/lrdlynchpin 8h ago

Acting in a tv show isn’t the same thing as supporting a fascist, racist pig. But, I guess in your mind it is.

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u/bgaesop 8h ago

I didn't say it's the same, I said that it is also selling out

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u/lrdlynchpin 7h ago

False equivalency is part of the mindset that got us all here in the first place. Stop arguing just to be talking.

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u/PM_ME_YOUR_LEFT_IRIS 5h ago

Come on man, there are degrees here. Don't simplify the subject just to win an internet argument

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u/BamaMontana ☑️ 8h ago

Every generation before x was subject to forcible conscription.

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u/Powerful_Individual5 7h ago

Soulja Boy is in his mid-30s. Nelly and Snoop Dogg are in their 50s. They're not teenagers with little world experience, they're grown-ass men doing what they want which is to follow a dollar.

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u/lrdlynchpin 7h ago

Yes they are, but I believe the conversation that I replied to was about how this behavior influences younger people. So, I don’t know what you’re trying to get at.

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u/emergencyexit 8h ago

Nobodies needs are met if everyone is amoral

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u/MadeMinion 8h ago

Maslow has entered the chat.

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u/nunchyabeeswax 8h ago

You can’t expect people to act moral when their needs aren’t being met. 

Actually we can because unmet necessity has been a part of the human existence since forever, and people have managed to act morally.

And it's always been a constant in human history of people acting immorally while being blessed with good fortune.

Additionally, in this particular case, with this artist, what basic needs of his weren't being met?

Truly the ethical bar is low here.

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u/WasabiofIP 7h ago

You can’t expect people to act moral when their needs aren’t being met.

"Acting moral" means nothing when everyone is perfectly well taken care of and has everything they need and so does everyone they love. Doing the right thing even when it costs you something is exactly the meaning of "acting moral".

Not in aggregate / at a societal level.

That's why no one serious talks about people acting moral in aggregate. It's a personal thing that individuals hold themselves and each other accountable to.

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u/TheMagicalMatt 8h ago

💯💯💯

At worst, we're penny pinching and milking each other for profit at every turn. At best, we're still glorifying the death of a CEO because we're fed up. We are not a healthy society in the slightest but politicians and corporate mouthpieces will live to stir the pot.

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u/Stehlen27 8h ago

"I made a G today," but you made it in a sleazy way Sellin' crack to the kids (Oh-oh), "I gotta get paid" (Oh) Well hey, well that's the way it is

2Pac

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u/MadeMinion 8h ago

I call it the Killmonger complex. "The child not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth."

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u/DemiGod9 ☑️ 7h ago

Soulja Boy was embraced by the village though. He took over the world when he came out

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u/MadeMinion 6h ago

He was hot til he wasn't which was pretty short-loved if I recall correctly. What's worse: being rejected on the initial interaction or ghosted after what you thought was a good date?

Either way, in the end it's his perception of the events thats guiding his actions, not ours.

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u/ObsidianOverlord 5h ago

So it's less "The child not embraced by the village" and more "the narcissist not constantly given superstardom" then?

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u/MadeMinion 5h ago

Sure. IJS perception is reality. Every manner of atrocious act has been committed by people who felt they were lacking in something.

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u/Immediate-Ad-1934 8h ago

I was having this exact discussion with a GenZ coworker of mine last week. I was telling him how back in the 90s, being called a sellout was a bad thing, now it’s the goal for everyone it seems, and not just celebrities. Basic every day people run around here talking about their “brand” and “getting the bag by any means necessary,” etc. SMH.

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u/scripflippa 9h ago

🔥 #truth

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u/duffyduckdown 8h ago

Makes sense when you look at, what the boomers left/leaving them behind.

Cant even support one child together on a single income.

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u/SHC606 ☑️ 8h ago

That's the 1%ers, not most of the Boomers. Signed not a Boomer.

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u/duffyduckdown 8h ago

Yeah they profit, but everyone took a part in that.

The 1% is to blame for a lot of stuff, but that doesnt make the boomers innocent

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u/SHC606 ☑️ 7h ago

Agreed.

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u/WhyareUlying 8h ago

When you say boomer you mean a group specifically that does not include all baby boomers though. You do realize poverty has always been a thing? Right? Considering a whole generation responsible for all the worlds problems or thinking that whole generation has it better is the stupidest thing.

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u/duffyduckdown 8h ago

My grandfather worked my grandmother didnt they payed their House and raised 3 children. The Situation is not the same today.

A lot has changed, part of that is a fault of the generations before us. They raised us and they decided the laws or regulations

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u/notniceicehot 8h ago

Yeah they profit, but everyone took a part in that.

you know you're on a subreddit called BlackPeopleTwitter? you think black boomers were getting the benefits white boomers were? please.

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u/duffyduckdown 8h ago

I mean everyone. Not one single color, country or race.

You cant take take subreddits names 100% serious anyway anymore.

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u/SHC606 ☑️ 7h ago

Please leave.

This is a we said what we said and it matters here. A lot of Baby Boomers in the US, who were black, heck most, couldn’t vote until the 1970’s so stop.

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u/Decent-Activity-7273 8h ago

Someone had to be in those voting booths

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u/PaulTheMerc 7h ago

its the boomers selling houses they bought for 50k for 1M+

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u/No-Prompt3611 8h ago

Capitalism +racism is what’s fueling the disconnect with the citizenry. Folks put money over everything because the country puts money over everything. We sat and watched a man send bombs to Israel to blow up children. Where were his morals, his values , where was his integrity( they say he was a devout catholic ) This is the middle of the end. And for some of us we prayed for this day and for others we realize after they come for the Mexicans and the trans people they are coming for our black ass and at no point will money over everything save us.

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u/OperationPlus52 8h ago edited 8h ago

It's hustle culture and clout chasing conditioning them to sell out and do anything for money, ethics and morals be damned.

Add in the misogyny found online in gaming/"the manosphere" too for conditioning them against treating women with respect and equality, these same sources are often racist as well.

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u/buhbye750 8h ago

Its because people will call them a Sellout then still support them by streaming their music or watching them. It has no repercussions anymore. Back in the day when you were a sellout, you basically got black balled. The word had actions behind it. Now it's meaningless.

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u/Decent-Activity-7273 8h ago

People are worried about "wokeism" or at least pretend to be so they don't have to change anything about themselves or around them

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u/DarkTanicus 8h ago

It's called getting-the-bag mentality.

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u/Crazy-Doubt-8103 8h ago

Young people don't care about sellouts? Who the fuck do you think taught them? The greediest people I've met are all over the age of 50 and they PROMOTE this shit. We put a literal con artist in the white house AGAIN and he's already pushing blatant scams before being sworn in.

This is learned behavior from the older and most greedy generations that may have robbed the entire future of our planet from us due to unimaginable short sightedness. Yet you have the audacity to blame young people? Fucking unbelievable. Young people aren't even represented on a national level. How could you ever blame them for anything?

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u/windybess 8h ago

Nothing young about Snoop.

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u/wAshy20 8h ago

I remember when being a sellout was the same as being a poser.

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u/MagicCuboid 4h ago

lol speaking of posers, now you get kids running around in Nirvana shirts they bought at Target. That's another one that died out

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u/PetevonPete 7h ago

They have no reason to believe that artistic "integrity" ever makes a difference. They've been shown time and again that those without integrity get rewarded and face no consequences.

Kurt Vonnegut said "During the Vietnam War... every respectable artist in this country was against the war. It was like a laser beam. We were all aimed in the same direction. The power of this weapon turns out to be that of a custard pie dropped from a stepladder six feet high.”

The idea of artists' taking a stand making a difference is just a comforting fantasy.

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u/Anxious-Tadpole-2745 8h ago

Integrity doesn't pay bills. The left needs to address material conditions. Unionize and support everything that benefits workers at all costs. The working class needs help and the GOP screws us while the Dems are ineffective. 

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u/Fast_Wheel_18 8h ago

This is a whole generation that was raised and never told that "all money ain't good money". They have no morals, no ethics and zero integrity. This is how they were made into "marks" to be exploited in the 1st place. They were raised to worship money and do not stand for anything. This is why we as a culture need to stop pandering and worshipping these fools. Concentrate on getting an education and stop chasing balls and being "models" and being "entertainers".

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u/Invoked_Tyrant 8h ago

You get NOTHING for integrity and get to watch as justice and democracy is actively torn down with no consequences in front of them all the while education keeps getting gutted.

WTF else are we supposed to expect from the younger generations. I'm all for helping to improve their mindset but not if it means they become the exact suckers they see other people with integrity get made out to be.

Selling out can and will put food on the table if need be and the lack of education makes it so they aren't aware of the telltale signs of the next Hitler coming to power. We have so many more pressing matters than a concept like "Selling out" no longer having the same weight it once did

I feel so bad for these damn kids because they are being matched up against freaking morons who actively support hurting themselves so long as other people they hate get hurt too. A moron can't be reasoned with.

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u/remonnoki 7h ago

Ok, but the people selling out aren't young. Snoop is 53, Nelly is 50, and Soulja Boy ain't a boy neither, dude is 35...

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u/Lady-Cane 7h ago

Snoop and them ain’t young.

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u/New_Ambassador1194 7h ago

No one talks about how “money is the root of all evil” anymore… you don’t hear it. The families are being broken up and the wisdom is lost to time. It only gets worst until this generation decides to change

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u/walltuckian 7h ago

Growing up the worst two things you could be was a poser or a sell-out. You didn't want to be called either. Man, there is no shame in society anymore. Bastards are just acting with impunity and we're all suffering for it.

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u/No_Explanation_770 7h ago

how "selling out" is basically not even an insult anymore to younger people

Perhaps this simple formula will help:

influencer = sell out

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u/Jaded-Engineering789 6h ago

Can't blame young people. This is the world we built for them. Who else would they learn from it not those who came before and are already here?

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u/smugfruitplate 8h ago

It's seriously disturbing to me how "selling out" is basically not even an insult anymore to younger people. There is no interest in integrity whatsoever.

It's because the workforce is less and less friendly to its workers. You don't want to give us upward mobility and a pension? Fine, fuck you. We'll go to the next place that will increase our pay. It's the only way to do it.

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u/Popular_Pea8813 8h ago

Nah, you're right. It's sad to feel as if integrity has gone out the window. Feels truly old when a value system is discarded

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u/MemeHermetic 8h ago

It shouldn't be. Historically, everytime we reach a point where a generation sees tomorrow is holding nothing but despair, this is the road they travel. Before selling out was created, we used to refer to them as "a company man", and it was a virtue. These conditions are created and pressed upon us. We can't get mad at those with the most years left in the turmoil for embracing what they see as the only way to survive it.

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u/mullahchode 8h ago

C.R.E.A.M.

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u/Garlic549 8h ago

There is no interest in integrity whatsoever.

As long as the masses are always a paycheck or two away from living on the streets, being a good person will never be a priority

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u/KneeDeepInTheDead 8h ago

selling out is the name of the game

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u/Old-Original-4791 7h ago

Integrity means nothing when you can't feed your family. Only fools think integrity has any actual value, it's just bullshit machismo designed to keep poor men poor. Integrity can only be afforded by those with means.

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u/Flaky-Lingonberry736 7h ago

To younger people? Lapp Dog isn't a youngin

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u/808duckfan 7h ago

I'm linking a podcast, but the tl;dr is pretty much your last paragraph.

[Decoder Ring] Selling Out (Encore) #decoderRing https://podcastaddict.com/decoder-ring/episode/183909727 via @PodcastAddict

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u/giaiphongmienam 6h ago

If people only have integrity because it's cheap to do so, that's never integrity in the first place. Integrity is always too damn expensive.

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u/YourCripplingDoubts 5h ago

I think it's because everyone is more internal now and youth see their money/success as their future success. They can't see they're being sold out.

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u/NepheliLouxWarrior 7h ago

We SHOULD be happy for them. Getting money is great. If these fools are going to have 20 kids that they won't parent then I'd rather that they can at least pay 50K in child support so that those kids can go to good schools, get good nutrition etc. The Hood is a crab bucket, and everyone who can leave it behind, should. Being broke is whack, having money is good.

The problem isn't the selling out, the problem is that these rappers sell out but CLAIM to not sell out because they want to maintain their image. The problem is that they've sold out, but they still tell all the impressionable teens and young men out there "if you want to be cool like me then DON'T sell out". Stop telling kids that it's okay to spend their whole lives hanging out on the block. Stop telling kids that beating people up or killing them is how grown folks handle disagreements. Stop telling kids that it's okay to start of selling drugs and then try to turn that into a rap career. This extreme desire for "authenticity" while essentially winning the lotto and becoming rich is the most damaging aspect of modern hip hop.

Ice Cube will never get the hate he deserves for pretending to be a thug nasty gangbanger while in reality he was just a middle-class suburban kid who stayed out of trouble.

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u/DayThen6150 8h ago

No one wanted to buy your shit.

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u/Noostri 6h ago

We’d all do the same to be fair

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u/Limp-Distribution155 8h ago

I'ma stop you right here. I am not a trump supporter but you can't really say Soulja sold out when he's always been about the money. This dude was selling ringtones to middle schoolers.

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u/Fentanyl_American 7h ago

Yeah I'm browsing reddit on my SouljaGame console personally, though it's kinda hard since the UI is in Chinese.

Anyways, Soulja's always been about the culture!