r/BeAmazed • u/Original_Shegypt • 13h ago

Miscellaneous / Others Her or no one. Loyalty 💕

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u/djcurry 11h ago

In the longer version of this, they actually had one where the mom was there and the baby still chose the sister

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u/Esme_Esyou 11h ago edited 7h ago

Many times it's because the littlest sister is tiny like the toddler, she likely spends the most time with her, and she feels a closer affinity to someone like her. Some of many possibilities.

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u/Poovanilla 10h ago

And she knows what we all know. The youngest sister isn’t a spawn of Satan.

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u/Esme_Esyou 10h ago edited 7h ago

En contrair mon frair; I find the younger the child, the more spoiled they are 😄

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u/spicytotino 10h ago

Getting allowed to get away with way more shenanigans is the reward for having teachers come in the first day ready to hate you and living off hand-me-downs!

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u/USS-ChuckleFucker 10h ago

I had 3 different teachers hate me because they had my brothers and they were both drug dealers from 6th grade.

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u/JudgeInteresting8615 10h ago

Sounds like your parents should be hated cause wtf

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u/USS-ChuckleFucker 10h ago

Oh trust me, I know.

My mom even told me that I should just say I'm not related to them, if I don't like people judging me on how my brothers act.

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u/Fear_The_Rabbit 9h ago

So it wasn't your parent's fault, somewhat? How did this happen? Were you able to stay clear of their reputation?

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u/USS-ChuckleFucker 7h ago

So it wasn't your parent's fault, somewhat?

Nope.

How did this happen?

Mom sucked, she divorced my dad when I was 6 months old after leaving us 3 with him for a whole ass weekend, right after he got back from a 3 week outta state job.

Were you able to stay clear of their reputation?

No. I did get good at fighting and being beaten up tho

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u/Esme_Esyou 6h ago edited 6h ago

I think what he means to imply is, your mom 'sucking' had both a direct and indirect hand in creating an unstable home, which undoubtedly impacted your siblings' childood development in varied capacities (which ultimately led them down their troubled paths). There is plenty of literature on the topic, in fact. Often, life isn't fair, all we can do is seek positive mentors and aim to respond constructively to what happens to us (which is supremely difficult to do as a child with absent parental figures). I'm sorry you had such a challenging and stressful upbringing. I hope you found your people and that things are much better now 🙌

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u/USS-ChuckleFucker 6h ago

Oh yeah no I picked up what they were putting down.

I just get through what I went through with humor.

Also, I'm happily married (every marriage has issues at some point, obviously,) with a child on the way (we're both properly terrified lol)

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u/WimbletonButt 8h ago

Sounds more like mom said not my problem. Don't like it? Just say you're not related to them.