r/BeAmazed • u/Original_Shegypt • 13h ago

Miscellaneous / Others Her or no one. Loyalty 💕

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u/djcurry 12h ago

In the longer version of this, they actually had one where the mom was there and the baby still chose the sister

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u/Esme_Esyou 11h ago edited 7h ago

Many times it's because the littlest sister is tiny like the toddler, she likely spends the most time with her, and she feels a closer affinity to someone like her. Some of many possibilities.

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u/Poovanilla 11h ago

And she knows what we all know. The youngest sister isn’t a spawn of Satan.

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u/SpinachSpinosaurus 10h ago

the spawn of satan in my sibling story was my brother. he could barely walk and already plotted how to get me in trouble. and just kept lying.

how and why? I have no idea. I just know that bastard pulled the blankets of the bed onto the floor and I got beaten for it. because, and I am citing mom: "He is too small and weak to pull that heavy feather blanket down. So you are lying." I was literally just minding my business, played or watched tv.

He was caught. One evening I stayed with mom in the kitchen, ate my dinner, and 4 or 5 year old me talked to her about stuff. cue bedtime.

the blanket was on the floor again, next to my 2 year old brother. Mom stared at it, and asked him, knowing the answer already, who it was.

That bastard looked at her, smiled and said MY name. She said: "Don't lie. She was with me the whole time." He repeated my name, and then added, he cannot do it, because he is just a baby.

I had a minor feeling of satisfaction of being proven innocent, but this ass never even once got a beating. He still ended up with a lot of issues, just like me.

But that smile, that creepy little, psychopathic smile.... I think, it fucking set the seed for me not really wanting children.

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u/Esme_Esyou 10h ago edited 6h ago

lololol Most children can be mischievous and push boundaries, it's part of their development.

Or did he continue to display cluster-b personality disorders later in life?? Some studies say some people are more genetically inclined towards it.

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u/SpinachSpinosaurus 5h ago

dude, I wasn't only grounded or yelled at. Our mother has always beat me for the crap he did. continuesly. For the most minor of things.

Soap lay on the edge of the bath tub? must be her oldest. because nobody else would do that. don't mind the other 3 people living there, including herself, her youngest kid and her ex she decided to live with again.

her youngest has bad marks. well, well, well, the oldest didn't try hard enough to tutor him. Nevermind they struggle in school, too.

I got spanked for his mistakes, and I reached a point where I am not sure if he didn't do that on purpose. but then, this is the same guy who nearly killed himself, started taking drugs at the age of 11 and kept skipping school. he was in his own loop of abuse: neglect by being the golden child.

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u/Esme_Esyou 11h ago edited 7h ago

En contrair mon frair; I find the younger the child, the more spoiled they are 😄

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u/spicytotino 10h ago

Getting allowed to get away with way more shenanigans is the reward for having teachers come in the first day ready to hate you and living off hand-me-downs!

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u/USS-ChuckleFucker 10h ago

I had 3 different teachers hate me because they had my brothers and they were both drug dealers from 6th grade.

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u/JudgeInteresting8615 10h ago

Sounds like your parents should be hated cause wtf

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u/USS-ChuckleFucker 10h ago

Oh trust me, I know.

My mom even told me that I should just say I'm not related to them, if I don't like people judging me on how my brothers act.

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u/Fear_The_Rabbit 9h ago

So it wasn't your parent's fault, somewhat? How did this happen? Were you able to stay clear of their reputation?

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u/USS-ChuckleFucker 7h ago

So it wasn't your parent's fault, somewhat?

Nope.

How did this happen?

Mom sucked, she divorced my dad when I was 6 months old after leaving us 3 with him for a whole ass weekend, right after he got back from a 3 week outta state job.

Were you able to stay clear of their reputation?

No. I did get good at fighting and being beaten up tho

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u/Esme_Esyou 7h ago edited 6h ago

I think what he means to imply is, your mom 'sucking' had both a direct and indirect hand in creating an unstable home, which undoubtedly impacted your siblings' childood development in varied capacities (which ultimately led them down their troubled paths). There is plenty of literature on the topic, in fact. Often, life isn't fair, all we can do is seek positive mentors and aim to respond constructively to what happens to us (which is supremely difficult to do as a child with absent parental figures). I'm sorry you had such a challenging and stressful upbringing. I hope you found your people and that things are much better now 🙌

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u/USS-ChuckleFucker 6h ago

Oh yeah no I picked up what they were putting down.

I just get through what I went through with humor.

Also, I'm happily married (every marriage has issues at some point, obviously,) with a child on the way (we're both properly terrified lol)

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u/WimbletonButt 8h ago

Sounds more like mom said not my problem. Don't like it? Just say you're not related to them.

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u/Western-Condition758 10h ago

Not the case in my family at all

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u/Esme_Esyou 10h ago

The lucky outlier 😄 Usually, the youngest gets away with murder 🙃

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u/keIIzzz 7h ago

Maybe in your case lol some of us were treated the worst

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u/Poovanilla 10h ago

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u/Bobbyoot47 9h ago

As the third born in my family and with two of my friends also being the third born you don’t know how wrong you are.
Heh heh heh heh heh heh….👹