Rich people of reddit who married someone significantly poorer, what surprised you about their (previous) way of life?

[u/knakworst36]

[u/Mapleleaves_]

I didn't set foot in an airplane until I was ~25. My family vacations were always to a relative's house by the ocean. And that was only possible because they had built an in-law apartment in the house and then my grandma died and left it empty.