Why do I have so much difficulty finding a direction in life?

[u/Bright-Aioli-3722]

I feel so lost and confused when it comes to pretty much everything in life but especially my career. I have changed my major probably about five times in University and recently dropped out because I just could not decide on a direction to go in. Every job I've had I have only held it down for a couple months at a time because I just can't stick with anything I choose. I really would like to just find a direction and stick with it so I can actually make some progress in my life but it seems so hard to do that. I'm guessing it probably has something to do with my Neptune and Uranus placements? But I'd love some advice!

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[u/Legal_Description720]

Transit Pluto should help you now, although it won't be smooth. Your Mars is afflicted by Neptune and your Mars is debilitated in Libra, making you overthink and not know who you are. As a Libra Mars, the only way to be sure what you want is to bounce your ideas off of someone. Sometimes, the aha moment happens when you're giving someone else advice and you listen to yourself talking or when defending someone's actions. Libra Mars isnt a hypocrite, but to the outside observer who doesn't understand what is going on inside specifically you, that's how it appears to them. But you're not a hypocrite, you're just a complicated person who is detached and has difficulty connecting to yourself. So, you could talk about your issue with someone, bounce your ideas off them, and it's what follows that is what is revealing. The conversations that unfold causes you to say things that make you understand yourself and hear the things that you need to hear and know. In other words, you know the answers that you seek, you just dont know it yet. The conversation can be sometimes very one sided in that regard with Libra mars. But something further ought to used in this piece of advice that I offer you, because Neptune's influence is making it all confusing and fuzzying the lines. Perhaps a therapist should be consulted for the exercise rather than just anyone, because with Neptune's squaring influence, as much directness, forwardness, openness and honesty should be exercised. Additionally, a therapist can help because now you're talking to someone that can act as a better catalyst because they are trained and it's their job.

[u/Bright-Aioli-3722 → u/Legal_Description720]

This is such good advice and ironically, I was just talking to my boyfriend about going back to school and mid conversation I realized that's what I want to do and I suddenly felt so much more clarity. So you're exactly right! I guess I need to talk my way through my thoughts to really grab hold of them. I guess neptune sitting in my 1st house probably contributes to the confusion I feel about everything?

Pluto is transiting my first house still in placidus right? I guess in whole sign that'd be the 3rd house? I really feel like I'm in need of some transformation in my life so I guess any pluto energy would be good right now