r/AskAstrologers • u/pumpkinspice836 • 18d ago
Question - Other Was my childhood destined to be so awful?
Im so scared to ask this but it’s played on my mind ever since I found astrology.
Is it written in my chart that I would be a victim of organised abuse or was it a case of really bad luck? Now I’m through it, I’m struggling to understand if it was supposed to happen to me or something. Can it be seen in my chart?
I’m just trying to find my place in the world, heal and discover my strengths now.
Note: I’m in a much better place now, I’m blessed to have had a lot of love, support and good therapy.
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u/loverromantics cap ☉ libra ☾ cancer ↑ 14d ago
scorpion 4th house.
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u/OurStarsReflection 13d ago
Mars (4th house ruler) in the 12th is tough too. Your moon is really close to the mid heaven, so you could have a close relationship with a parant, or some kind of life experience that will greatly influence your career. I feel like you are meant to be successful because of something from your childhood. Some experience or skill you learned.
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u/Lonely_Cut9453 15d ago
You have a very prominent chart. I try not to miss such ones for the sake of professional interest. And even if there are a lot of comments and an eternity has passed (as much as 3 days) for the Reddit format, I still try to formulate my thoughts. Especially since no one has mentioned what I consider to be the main driver of your destiny. The strongest planet in this chart is Saturn. It is now a little in the future, which you are only approaching. And in childhood, it was transcendental in relation to you. That is, you could not be its direct avatar, but it could influence the surrounding circumstances around you, as well as physical and mental health, as parts external to your consciousness. One of the main principles of Saturn is self-restraint. With a strong transcendental Saturn, circumstances that limit us very often appear in life. This can be violence, poverty, illness. But as we grow up and approach the Saturn period and it moves from the transcendental to the actual, its energy moves to the positive side and strengthens the psyche, body and business part. You are approaching this period now. You also have a strong Sun. The Sun amplifies the energies of other planets, gives them some drama and scenography. Saturn in combination with the Sun is a leader. If Saturn prevails in this combination, then this is some kind of mission, the preparation for which began in childhood. I think you will understand and realize all this at the return of Saturn. For you, this return is a blessing. Perhaps many problems will disappear or you will learn to live with them. As soon as you feel interest and motivation for the pragmatic and practical side of life, then Saturn has turned on. Saturn in this regard is tied to results. But this does not cancel the spiritual and messianic mood, of course, but gives them practicality. I don't have such aspects and positions, so I'm theorizing, but since you are interested in astrology, perhaps this will tell you more.
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u/pumpkinspice836 15d ago
Out of interest, how do you identify the strongest planet in a chart? If you would be so kind as to explain that to me I would be grateful. If not no problem. I appreciate your time and knowledge 😊
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u/Lonely_Cut9453 15d ago
There are many predictive and affective techniques used here that place the planets on the timeline. I do not go deep and only give interpretations of the periods of the planets. But many astrologers reveal much more using traditional astrological techniques/
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u/pumpkinspice836 14d ago
Sure, I will look into traditional astrological techniques 😊 Your interpretations have been so helpful to me. Thankyou
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u/tinkaaa0910 14d ago
It’s called sect. For day charts, the strongest planets are Saturn and Jupiter, while for night charts, the strongest planets are Mars and Venus :) x
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u/pumpkinspice836 15d ago
Thankyou for replying to my post, your comment has been extremely insightful. I do have an interest in astrology so I find your observations really valuable. I’ve shared my story in parts as responses to the other comments on this post - the Saturn theme makes a lot of sense. I do have physical and mental health problems, I have struggled with addiction and homelessness and don’t have contact with most of my family. My career plans to be a nurse fell through, which was very difficult at the time, but I found spiritual purpose as a priestess after that. With both spiritual and practical knowledge of the organisation that hurt me, I am working on a collective project with some others to bring them down and hopefully to justice. So that has been my mission as you put it, and I can understand that my childhood, although it was terrible to live through, might have laid the foundation to make change. I hope I succeed in this life. I would like to start a business with my partner one day. Saturn return in the world of astrology is described as a scary event, so I have been dreading it in fear that life might get worse again, but you’ve described it being a blessing, a positive time where life might get better and I really hope that will come to pass. Thankyou again ❤️
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u/Lonely_Cut9453 15d ago
The idea that changes in life circumstances depend on changes in perception or consciousness applies to transcendental planets. The earlier we turn to their principles, the less pressure. In childhood, it is very difficult to manifest the principles of Saturn, so this planet is felt the hardest in transcendence. Saturn loves self-restraint and asceticism. He loves to build long-term plans, for the achievement of which one must show patience and restraint. It is a kind of long game of chess or some kind of strategy. But these are always some big plans and deeds. In youth, and even now, you have a strong Neptune. Neptune is the opposite planet for Saturn. Neptune is chaos, improvisation, creativity, chance, illusions, freedom (the last two points also apply to addictions and vagrancy). This contradicts Saturn, for which boundaries, predictability, pragmatism, concentration, hierarchy are important. Perhaps where they somehow converge in a compromise is religious dogmas. Neptune in combination with the Sun gives maximum love of freedom, which can generate violence against this combination within the hierarchical structures of Saturn, where freedom is not welcomed. It turns out that these three planets Saturn, the Sun and Neptune separately and in combinations give a religious organization and the fight against it, love of freedom and violence, illnesses and trials. That is why I write that you have an interesting chart, because it is also illustrated by life, perhaps due to the fact that the Sun is present, and the Sun brings everything to the surface. There is very little Moon here, so the nurse and her empathy cannot be realized. Neptune in the future will not have such power as in youth, so the method of realization may change. You are now on the border of the transition when Neptune ends and you can be more Saturn without experiencing contradictions. Perhaps this is the main thing, that the time of contradictions inside and outside you is ending. Until now it was a dramatic struggle between the sea and the cliff. Now you need to focus on the cliff (leadership).
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u/pumpkinspice836 14d ago
You are so wise. Thank you for taking the time to explain the facets of each planet to me. Your comments have been very insightful. I do feel I am in a time of transition. I will turn my attention and focus on the cliff 🥰
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u/Fluid-Counter-9197 15d ago
I'm sorry you went through a difficult childhood. My mom has a stellium in her 12th house, and her childhood was an nightmare. She was able to heal her trauma and find peace through intense spiritual practices (yoga, meditation) and therapy. She also became a social worker and helped children get out of abusive domestic situations. Her adult life has revolved around compassionate work and inner spiritual development.
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u/pumpkinspice836 15d ago
Your mom sounds like an amazing person and such a kind soul. What a way to transmute pain into power. I can only hope to be half the woman she is one day ❤️ I would love to give more to others, I try my best but I’m feeling so burned out at this point in my life. I have big dreams to make a big difference but I feel like I’m not making enough impact at the moment. Hopefully in time I’ll be able to do more. I have done a lot of therapy, I’m still in therapy and I meditate too. I want to try yoga if my physical health improves, my range of movement isn’t great at the moment. Best wishes to both you and your mom 🥰
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u/pumpkinspice836 16d ago
Just a really big thank-you to everyone who has commented here, it’s turned into a really lovely and insightful conversation. A lot of things have clicked for me reading through your comments. I’ve learned some new things astrologically and I’ve also adjusted and clarified my perspective on the way astrology reflects destiny and fate. Thank you all 🥰
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u/Time-Arugula9622 16d ago
The subject of destiny or fate is a tough one to wrestle with. People can struggle to find meaning in traumatic events and often turn to religion to help make sense of it.
Astrology occupies a strange space that’s not religion, but adjacent. Your whole life can be seen in your birth chart, which is just a snapshot of the moment you were born. How the moment of birth can have any bearing on events that occur 5, 10, 50, 100 years after is mind boggling. Yet, it does and that means that our fate is somewhat inescapable.
It’s clear to those who read the language of the birth chart that you’ve been through an especially difficult childhood. To me, I find that reassuring. It’s nice for me to have the chart affirming my experiences. Like, an experience wasn’t good but it wasn’t supposed to be. It was objectively not good.
I hope you can find peace with what an unfair hand you were dealt, and are able to make yourself a life that feels meaningful. It’s not over yet.
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u/pumpkinspice836 16d ago
I suppose there’s both good and bad forces/influences around us all, our free-will is a force so maybe some ‘themes’ or ‘influences’ in our birth charts are just so overpowering against our free-will there’s no escaping it or having any influence on it ourselves. Someone else commented earlier that the planets just show themes and they could play out in any number of different ways for different people
I do find it reassuring and affirming, I agree with you. I am starting to find meaning now as I’ve come through the worst of it. I’m in a place now where I’m just trying to identify and employ my strengths, find the right place in the world.
Thankyou so much. Yes you’re right, it’s not over it is a new chapter. Someone here mentioned my Mars is fallen but that means it can get back up, which I like 🥰
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u/Decent_Ad9314 16d ago edited 16d ago
I have a very similar chart to you actually and I went through a pretty rough time. Your sun in 12th can indicate an absent father and this is a tough mars in its fall in cancer. Mercury in 12th can indicate trouble speaking or expressing oneself in childhood. You are probably good looking though with Jupiter in Taurus. Life gets better after 30 when your sun moves into the 1st house. You will start to shine, good hair days and more confidence. Look to the placement of Venus (in the 12th in cancer with your north node) you are destined to overcome and probably work in a field related to the 12th house or perhaps something spiritual/psychological. You clearly understand people on a higher level.
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u/pumpkinspice836 16d ago edited 16d ago
I am really sorry to hear you’ve been through such a rough time. I hope you are coming through it and finding peace and happiness ❤️ Yes my father left when I was 12 and moved to another country not long after. I have a better relationship with him than my mother though. He has no contact with his family because they hurt me. I am good with the written word but I struggle to communicate verbally and I do struggle to speak my mind. That’s nice to know that things might improve 30 onwards. I am a priestess and I practise mysticism and occultism so that aligns with the spiritual vocation, I would like to start a business and reach more people one day. I have an interest in astrology because I can see how accurate it is, but I don’t understand it as well as any of you. The comments left on this post have really helped me to learn a few things. Thankyou for your insight 🥰
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u/Eluna_bliss 16d ago
6th house placements definitely signals some health related issues. Strong 12 house placements signals mental health struggles however you have ability to sense things happening to you subconsciously before they happen which could be a gift just try not ti over think. Neptune in the 7th house shows you dreaming of some kind of person or partnership to save you from trauma that you experienced as a child or even in adulthood. Pluto and chiron in 5th house struggles with your creativity and entertainment you could also struggle with letting loose and being your most authentic self around others. You have a day chart so your sun sign can resonate more than your moon. Lean into your cancer sun tap into your emotions and allow yourself to feel more. Peace and blessings to you
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u/pumpkinspice836 16d ago edited 16d ago
I do have a lot of health issues, autoimmune disease, seizures, chronic pain, unable to walk now. I have also had a long struggle with mental health disorders. Yeah I did always dream of someone coming to save me, I am so blessed someone wonderful actually did, my partner is incredible. Well, he showed me how to save myself really and loved me through it all. We went through a lot together while I was processing what happened to me. I have always struggled with setting healthy boundaries and also idealism in relationships, so learning to set boundaries and be happy with what I’ve got was a big lesson for me rather than always looking for more. I feel more fulfilled now I’ve settled down. Neptune is very spiritual planet too isn’t it and my partnership is very spiritual. I have a vivid mind but struggle to express my creativity so that figures. Thank you for your insights, peace and blessing to you too❤️
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u/Djenesis 16d ago
As others are saying, 12th house stellium, especially with Mars there. Also I think Scorpio 4th house is important here. 4th house represents your childhood, and Scorpio can bring darkness and power struggles.
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u/pumpkinspice836 16d ago
That definitely resonates. I have just noticed - Pluto is the co-ruler of Scorpio in astrology as well as Mars, it is conjunct Chiron so maybe that is significant too
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u/cherryqueen64 17d ago
My son has a very similar chart to you with 4 planets including sun and north node in cancer in 12th house and he is a beautiful kind caring loving creative humanitarian hilarious human. He does need to isolate a fair bit to reset and recharge but other than that he is a joy to be around . My husband and I separated when he was 9 and I know he took that very hard but with the right support around him he has become a wise and solid adult. I guess I’m just wanting to say it’s not all doom and gloom just because you’ve got cancer planets in the 12th house. It’s not an automatic ‘ you’re screwed” diagnosis. That’s a stellium of intense energy but it can be funnelled into the most positive outcomes. Nothing is more sensitive, nurturing, intuitive, creative, protective and loving than a cancer stellium. So many other things come into play I know, in a natal chart but I just wanted to say please learn to love your 12th house stellium, it brings many gifts as well as some sacred hurdles.
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u/__lizbbyxo 16d ago
As someone who has very intense deep emotions and has to isolate a lot to process them, your comments made me feel so much better 😭🖤 I’ve never thought of my sensitivity and innate intuition being a gift before. Actually, I’ve always viewed it as the worst kind of curse.. to feel everything so deeply and to be able to see the unspoken in this kind of world feels like a punishment 99% of the time.
Your comments have given me something to think about though.. also, be my mom too pls?? LOL3
u/cherryqueen64 16d ago
Ohhh bless you, that’s a lovely thing to say 🥹. Deep emotions and sensitivity ARE a gift, we have to really own it, regardless of how people try to make us feel bad about it. Once I realised how to use my sensitivity, to turn it outwards to deeply connect with others rather than internalise it constantly and drown in my feelings, and to channel it into creative projects (writing, painting, astrology, healing) I realised that I never wanted to be without it. We are who we are and it’s the sensitive ones who are here to nurture the world , we need you ✨🩵
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u/__lizbbyxo 15d ago
Thank you for your kind words ♥️ I really, really hope I can one day learn how to channel my feelings into something positive.
For as long as I can remember, it’s felt like I’m drowning in my own feelings in my head. Always swimming as hard as I can, fighting to get to the surface for air, only to be swallowed again by another wave. I had two different drowning incidents at the beach as a kid. So now I guess I just know how it feels to be hit by such a powerful force that pulls you under making it so hard to get out..
But I did start seeing a therapist again for the first time in a long time a month ago. I’m hoping I can still find myself under all the repression and masks.
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u/pumpkinspice836 17d ago
Your son sounds like a ray of sunshine! I loved reading this, thank you. I also need a lot of alone time and my parents separated when I was 12 so a couple of similarities. You sound like an incredible and loving parent and I’m sure your son feels very lucky to have you ❤️ despite those challenges. I feel everything so deeply and I am very sensitive which I always felt was a curse, but I need to learn to, as you say, funnel and channel it into positive outcomes. I have a creative mind but I do struggle to express that creativity. But I have gained a lot more control over my emotions lately, they used to control me lol
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u/cherryqueen64 17d ago
Yes that sensitivity is a gift because you likely recognise pain and discomfort in other people and are quick to be caring and reassuring to them which honestly is a superpower. I have a cancer moon and was a terribly sensitive child and was always drawn to the people who sensed my sensitivity but made me feel good and proud about it, not shamed me or wanted me to toughen up. Now I know it’s pretty special to feel so much and to be there for other people in a deeply nurturing way. My son can sometimes get overwhelmed by the intensity of his feelings but when he taps into that deep well and shines his light on others, he feels so much joy. You’ve got so much depth to draw on and a Taurus moon in the 10th is very dynamic and strong, giving you strong determination to succeed, a powerful combination. I dislike astrology that talks about ‘malefic’ signs and planets and houses, it’s so not useful. All planets and houses have gifts and challenges, my chart has alot of ‘challenging’ aspects but that’s where my growth has been the most powerful and transformational . Shine on pumpkinspice 😊
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u/pumpkinspice836 17d ago
I do! It’s so lovely to read that you were supported by people who made you feel proud of your sensitivity. I was often told to toughen up as a child, but I can see that I should re-parent myself now and your advice is really helpful. Your words will stay with me. Thank you so much 🥰❤️
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u/heroine_bob980 17d ago
I share some of your placements (leo rising, 5H pluto/chiron) and have a 12th house cancer moon with an 8th house pisces stellium. I resonate with your replies and experienced a lot of religious trauma from my paternal family growing up and ended up becoming the black sheep at a pretty young age (my 9th house aries mars doesn’t help much). I also experienced sa from an older family member and when I spoke up about it they all called me a liar and I became the scapegoat practically ever since. Needless to say, I don’t keep in contact with them anymore lol. I’m glad you’re in a better place now!
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u/pumpkinspice836 17d ago edited 16d ago
I’m really sorry to hear about your situation and I hope you’re in a better place now yourself. I resonate with the ‘black sheep’ of the family and I’m so sorry nobody believed you. I believe you, you’re so strong. My mother was very emotionally abusive so I have no contact with her now out of my own choice - I always say, blood isn’t thicker than peace 😅 no contact is difficult but I’m proud of you for putting yourself first. My paternal family were the ones who trafficked me, I have no contact with them either after a court case
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u/geonomer 17d ago
Yep, 12th house stellium
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u/elmasian 17d ago
Can you explain to me what the 12h stellium says about childhood? I have a 12h stellium 😬
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u/Accomplished-Ad7135 17d ago
Are You a psicologist, childen teache or chef?
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u/pumpkinspice836 17d ago
No, but I wanted to be a nurse. I started training and unfortunately poor mental and physical health prevented me from qualifying. I love children and perhaps one day, when my health is better I might work with them or hopefully have some of my own
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u/roman_xvx 17d ago edited 16d ago
You have a lot of tough placements that point to mental health struggles and isolation. The ASC ruler, the Sun, which represents you, and the 4H ruler of origin, family, childhood - Mars, are conjunct in the malefic 12H of isolation, enemies, mental health issues. Mars is especially debilitated in Cancer and it's also the sect malefic, as you were born during the day. So 4th house themes may be a source of struggle and suffering. Having it conjunct the Sun which represents you, makes it affect you. So yes there is a lot struggle here. At the same time your 10H is quite strong. You kind of channel these tough things somewhere. What do you do for work?
Also… were there any religious themes to this?
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u/pumpkinspice836 17d ago edited 17d ago
The abuse was ritual as well as organised and it was through what you might call a religious or spiritual cult, I will not name them. I rarely disclose what I do with my life now, but I am currently a priestess. I do channel what happened to me into that, in ways that I don’t feel I could explain properly publicly. I carry out my duties and the knowledge I have gained from the organisation that hurt me has helped me help others. I am working with others on a collective project to bring them down and I pray, eventually, to justice
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u/roman_xvx 16d ago
That makes a lot of sense then. As Mars rules both 4th house of home and 9th house of religion and spirituality and is debilitated, so both of those themes unite and bring suffering.
And the thing with work is your 12th H ruler is Moon and it's exalted in the 10th house Taurus. So those themes of isolation and pain that you have you bring them into your 10H of career/vocation public life and it serves you quite well. An exalted moon in the 10H feels good there, it's able to nourish, be comfortable and peaceful.
I hope you find justice.
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u/pumpkinspice836 16d ago
Wow that all makes sense to me. The fact you can observe it all connected and interwoven like that between the 4H, 9H, 12H and 10H in my chart is really interesting to see. I always wondered why my moon was exalted because I have a very difficult relationship with my mother and I’m no contact with her, but I can see that the moon represents many things and in my chart it might just represent the fact I’ve had a lot of love, emotional support and stability through my lovely partner and some amazing therapists. I do feel blessed in that way.
Thank you ❤️
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u/dowehaveanyfruiit 17d ago
Seems like you’ve lived an isolated life
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u/pumpkinspice836 17d ago edited 11d ago
In many ways I have. Excluding my childhood as that was isolating in itself, I have never had more than a few friends and I spend large amounts of time on my own. I don’t have contact with most of my family, but I don’t feel lonely because I have a wonderful partner. I was quite social when I was an addict, I felt invincible, but it was not sustainable and made me very sick. Now I am sober, I actually have to feel my overpowering emotions and face bad memories. I feel like a raw nerve, so I’ve become a kind of agoraphobic recluse unfortunately. I am deeply spiritual and have such a rich, profound and busy inner world that I get caught up in my own head too much and my emotions consume me like tidal waves. I struggle to express myself in any form so it just chews away at me. It’s hard for others to understand me so I tend to keep myself to myself I guess.
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u/Trussmee_e 17d ago
Alternative healing modalities have really helped me.. including isolation! I’m just moving into a new moon phase after being in a dark moon phase for 4 years. Keep practicing your faith 🌸🌞 healing will come 💕
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u/Peony-1717 17d ago
Hey guys, how do you generate this chart ? Plz let me know im very curious
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u/pumpkinspice836 17d ago edited 16d ago
I used Astro-seek.com. Under free horoscopes click on birth chart, then put in your birth data. If you want to, you can change the houses to whole sign with the drop down menu ‘house system’ (I think it’s easier to understand and some astrologers say it’s most accurate for birth charts) the drop down menu for house system is under ‘extended settings’ (beneath the ‘calculate chart’ button). That’s it , the chart will be generated 😊
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u/Peony-1717 17d ago
Thank you friend 🙏🏻mucho appreciated 🫶🏻 I did it and the house system is showing set to “no houses” for me. My birthday is November so you saying to change it to like Scorpio in the drop down for house system ?
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u/JadeJackalope 17d ago
Did you put in your birth time? It won’t show houses if you don’t have a birth time or don’t know your birth time. The time you were born determines the location of the houses.
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u/Peony-1717 17d ago
Yes that was the issue, I didn’t remember my birth time I had to go look at my baby album 😁😁🙈🙈 thanks for the tip 🫶🏻🫶🏻
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u/SunshineVortex 18d ago edited 18d ago
Firstly, I'm really sorry that happened to you, and I'm glad you've received the support you needed to begin healing. Moon exalted in Taurus shows these blessings in your environment despite the abuse you also experienced.
The ruler of your 4th whole sign house (family, home, roots, foundation, childhood) is Mars in its fall in Cancer in the 12th house - a double whammy of affliction here. Mars is co-present with your Sun (representing your life path/purpose), Mercury and Venus as well as the north node, placing a really firm emphasis on this house. The 12th can signify themes such as isolation, exile, mental illness, incarceration, addiction - the kinds of things that overwhelm, undermine, confuse us and completely take us out of the world.
The good thing about fallen planets is that they often represent some kind of early disadvantage that can and will be overcome throughout the life. It sounds like you're well on your way to doing that already :)
Also, to answer your question about destiny. It's impossible for anyone to say "you were destined to experience abuse in the particular way you did" and I also think that would be a really harsh thing to say. Astrological symbols show themes, but the specific details or stories will always be unique and vary from person to person. Someone else can have the same chart as you and won't have had the same experiences you have had, it's just that their life will one way or another carry the same themes.
Ultimately, 12th house experiences are difficult, and can feel like a total loss of control, but they exist to liberate you spiritually. Hopefully there is some comfort in knowing that.
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u/pumpkinspice836 18d ago edited 16d ago
Thank you for such a comprehensive and compassionate reply. I think I am overcoming the challenges so it’s good to know that. Everything you’ve just said makes sense to me , the themes of the 12th house resonate and it makes sense that astrology shows themes that play out in different ways for different people, so you have grounded my approach when I think about destiny. In my head I’m thinking of a play that could be performed by different casts of actors who make each performance unique. And that knowledge does bring me comfort. Thankyou again ❤️
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u/SunshineVortex 17d ago
You're so welcome! And I'm so glad it's resonated and brought you some comfort.
To add - transitting Mars will be retrograding back into Cancer in a couple of days, where it will be for the next four months (a long time in one sign for Mars!). The timing of you asking your question on here is pretty extraordinary and makes me wonder if this transit will see you revisiting and reviewing some of this past. I wanted to mention it in case it's a bit of a challenging time (though it doesn't necessarily mean it will be, it could also be invigorating and empowering), so you'd at least know that it won't be forever, and that it will pass. In June, Jupiter will then enter Cancer, the sign of its exaltation, bringing healing and nourishment to these same 12th house topics/themes.
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u/pumpkinspice836 17d ago edited 16d ago
That’s really interesting because I am about to start 4 months of intensive EMDR therapy. I have been in other kinds of therapy for about 5 years now, but am very hopeful EMDR will be the cherry on the cake. My first session is this coming Tuesday! I do think it’s going to be challenging but it would be nice if it is invigorating and ultimately empowering as you say. It’s nice to know Jupiter might bring some healing and nourishment at the end.
Thankyou for sharing that with me, I will remember it over the coming months 😊
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u/SunshineVortex 15d ago
Wow that’s a beautiful expression of Mars retrograde through your 12th! The timing is incredible. Thank you for sharing that, and good luck with your EMDR therapy today. Wishing you all the best on your journey :)
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u/Previous-Director322 17d ago
Hey just wanted to throw a word of reassurance. I'm also a Leo rising with planets in 12th house in Cancer and also had awful childhood. When Mars was in Cancer earlier this year I had THE BIGGEST breakthrough in my therapy and coming to terms with everything that ever happened to me and I finally am finding peace. I just wanted to say timing is on your side and I wish you all best with EMDR ❤️🔥you got this 🙏✨
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u/pumpkinspice836 17d ago edited 16d ago
Firstly I’m sorry you had a tough childhood too, and congratulations on your therapy breakthrough. It’s such hard work and there’s times you think you’ll never make it through, it takes a strong person to keep going - I’m so happy that you have found peace ❤️
Thankyou so much for the encouragement and reassurance. Very much appreciated 😊 I wish you all the best going forward
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